Katy

Tell us what moderated chat topics you would like to see:

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Chat about "I cannot remember everything"

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I like the idea of a chat for those who have little to no memory of SA/CSA

What about parenting challenges for survivors? i.e. difficulty dealing with physical contact with your own kids, baths, stuff like that...

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Anything for verbal/psychological abuse? Maybe UK time friendly...

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Chat about "I cannot remember everything"

I like this idea

maybe also; how to deal with recovering new memory?

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Chat for those who have little to no memory of assault/csa

I like this idea also ...

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A chat dealing with struggles around night time, sleeping, and nightmares.

:butterfly: butterflyylfrettub :butterfly:

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Posted (edited)

handling responses from people ie negative and positive from family members, friends etc

another sexuality chat

Different forms of therapy chat

Dealing with your T/abusive/bad T's who abandon

Dealing with unwanted advances in view of a survivor.

Your soul chat

Edited by bell

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Because the last one was so good - maybe "handling blank memories" or "memories with no end"

Thanks

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A chat dealing with struggles around night time, sleeping, and nightmares.

:butterfly: butterflyylfrettub :butterfly:

YESYESYESYESYES

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Chat about "I cannot remember everything"

I agree.

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"When your abuser is sick or is near death or dies"

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Maybe one on coping after getting away from your abuser?

or dealing with surfacing memories? :unsure:

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"Lets be friends chat" for those who are lonely or in need of company?

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Posted (edited)

Communication Styles: What we need. What our style is. How misunderstandings can happen online just as they can in physical life. Best methods in reaction to misunderstandings or differences in communication styles.

Edited by Shameless

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I'm sorry if this is really a stupid idea but...

I'm honestly very scared to talk in the chat room(I don't know if I'm the only one)...and I was wondering if we could have a chat about being scared to talk/chat and maybe exploring the reasons why?

:blush:

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I think that is a wonderful idea Catherine

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how about when surviving interferes with work?

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I'm sorry if this is really a stupid idea but...

I'm honestly very scared to talk in the chat room(I don't know if I'm the only one)...and I was wondering if we could have a chat about being scared to talk/chat and maybe exploring the reasons why?

:blush:

I feel the same way Catherine.

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more specifically than the sexuality suggestion, but could we have another masturbation chat? I know there was a thread in the sex & sexuality forum, but it seems to have died :(

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how about when surviving interferes with work?

I'd like this one too, Mingo. Perhaps we can extend it to be 'interferes with responsibilites'?

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yes that would make it more inclusive.

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I just wanted to list all of the great suggestions you have made so that we can see without having to go through all of the pages :) . The ones in bold are the ones that we have done quite recently....although thats not to say it can't be repeated. Keep the ideas coming.

Long-term effects of PTSD

Difficulties in school / work due to mental health problems

Coping with Chronic Illness

Discussing how art and music can be helpful in healing

Survivors and education

How to deal with anxiety and panic?

Life after rape

How to deal with intimacy

Learning to open up and talk about our experiences

Thinking and caring about ourselves

residential and ip experiences

Male/female relationships/friendships and how this is affected by abuse/assault

Are my feelings normal?

Coping with crisis

Meeting your abuser or confronting abuser

Fear of abandonment

How to support other survivors

Chat for those who feel at fault

Trust

"I cannot remember everything"

Parenting challenges for survivors

verbal/psychological abuse

Dealing with struggles around night time, sleeping, and nightmares

Handling responses from people ie negative and positive from family members, friends etc

Sexuality chat

Therapy

Dealing with your T/abusive/bad T's who abandon

Dealing with unwanted advances in view of a survivor.

When your abuser is sick or is near death or dies

Dealing with surfacing memories

masturbation chat

"Lets be friends chat" for those who are lonely or in need of company

Why it affects us so much

Communication

Scared to talk/chat in the chatroom

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I'd really like the chat to help other survivors & the chat for those who feel at fault.

Thanks for taking the time to do the list kamakaty :)

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