Sign in to follow this  

Who Deserves to Be Here?

Recommended Posts

2 minutes ago, Guest AJ88 said:

I’m not sure where I deserve to be.

Anyone who has experienced sexual abuse, at any age, regardless of gender, is welcome and deserves to be here.

I hope you will reach out further by joining Pandys as a member, which will enable you to post more widely for support around the forums.

Take care.

Share this post

Link to post
Share on other sites
Guest Meg

Thanks for posting this. I think that you should add “if you don’t remember it, you deserve to heal.” I don’t remember my assault because either I was drugged or so drunk that I don’t remember it. Or maybe my brain blocked it out. I’m not sure at all, because I don’t remember it. But I have flashbacks to this one scene from the night. And I woke up without underwear and with bruises and scratches all over me.

Part of me feels like since I don’t remember, I don’t deserve to be here. But I woke up feeling so violated, without even my underwear, and injured in several places. And I know I would never cheat on my boyfriend. But for some reason since I don’t remember what happened except for this one scene I keep flashing back to, that I don’t deserve to be feeling this way. But I do, and it’s so hard. I’ve been just sleeping a lot, I can’t eat, I don’t want to be around anyone. Does it get better? I don’t know what to do. Im relieved to have found this message board.

Share this post

Link to post
Share on other sites
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Sign in to follow this