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#91 ShannaMoon

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Posted 22 March 2013 - 09:22 PM

I would be so alone

#92 shantiwater

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Posted 16 April 2013 - 01:39 PM

Without Pandy's, I would of given up, not been ok mentally, and my children would not have their mother to count on, I would not be strong for my trial, and most of all not realized there is life beyond this abuse. I'm so honored and grateful to have Pandy's. :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

#93 SafePlace

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Posted 19 April 2013 - 02:34 AM

Without Pandy's I would not have been able to seek much needed treatment with resources found here. I am so grateful! I don't know where I'd be without it.....

#94 DaisyChains

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Posted 19 April 2013 - 01:59 PM

I would still be feeling alone and I would still be bottling everything up.

#95 michaeljoseph

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Posted 19 April 2013 - 02:48 PM

Without Pandy's I would not understand that family and friends are not supposed to abuse me. I was hurt by a friend in 2006 locked up in a house and raped.

Here I have great friends and a safe place to be me.

Thanks Pandy's

#96 Pixxi

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Posted 25 April 2013 - 01:26 AM

Without Pandy's I would have died.

#97 tinyrabbit

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Posted 25 April 2013 - 09:05 AM

Without Pandy's I would also have died.

I had a very bad week last week. Being able to come here and ask people to sit with me helped more than I can say.

#98 Sammi

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Posted 04 May 2013 - 08:43 AM

Without Pandys, I would still be keeping my past a secret and possibly still have to interact with one of the people who hurt me.

#99 healingangel90

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Posted 04 May 2013 - 08:58 PM

Without Pandy's, I wouldn't have had the support I needed to continue surviving - or the courage I needed to make the big, positive decisions I have in the past year and half. Thank you! :)

#100 Pixxi

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Posted 08 May 2013 - 11:51 AM

This topic makes me cry. I'm so grateful for all you wonderful Pandy's people and its beautiful to see how our community has helped so many.

You're all wonderful!

#101 WyPiMom2

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Posted 15 May 2013 - 02:06 PM

Without Pandy's I would have nowhere to turn. I've been off and on this site for the past ten years whenever I needed support. Thank you

#102 dreamcatcher95

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Posted 16 May 2013 - 12:08 PM

without pandys i would still feel so alone

#103 smallflower

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Posted 29 May 2013 - 11:50 AM

Without Pandy's I would not have a place to go to share my feelings when I don't feel okay sharing them with anyone in my "real" life. I wouldn't have access to a lot of supportive people here, or have links to other sources of support I've found on the Links portion of Pandy's.

#104 marie

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Posted 29 May 2013 - 12:00 PM

What a lovely post!

#105 trublue

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Posted 26 September 2013 - 06:10 PM

Without Pandy's I would still be alone without a voice

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