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What have you learned from Pandy's?

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#121 DaisyChains

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Posted 11 July 2014 - 05:51 PM

I joined Pandys one year ago and I have learned that I'm not alone.

#122 mamielou

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Posted 31 March 2015 - 08:34 PM

I joined almost a year ago. I've learned that I'm not damaged, dirty, disgusting, or broken. That it wasn't my fault. That nobody is born to be used. That i deserve real love, without expectations or limits. That my responses and thought processes are normal for someone who has been abused, and that means that I'm actually normal (LOL! Who knew? )

#123 Colleen

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Posted 16 April 2015 - 11:07 AM

I've been here about 3 weeks. I finally feel that I can say what I went through without recrimination or having to defend myself. It's a safe place where you can be real. Everyone cares. You don't get that in the real world.

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