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#1 Cappo

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Posted 23 January 2011 - 05:14 AM

I may have not understood this properly, but this site is brilliant for me for mutual support - but my husband is finding that he needs support too as he is struggling to help me.

Don't get me wrong, I do want him to have help, but I don't want him seeing what I share. Is there somewhere on this site for supporters - but restricting their viewing? A purely selfish question, so if it's unreasonable please forgive me.

#2 Shannon

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Posted 23 January 2011 - 09:55 AM

Hi Cappo,

Yes, we do have a section for supporters - secondary survivors as they're known here.


That link will give you more info.

Here is another site just for supporters, started by some Pandy's members: http://herodes.2.forumer.com/

So glad this site is helpful for you and I hope your husband finds support too!


#3 Cappo

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Posted 23 January 2011 - 12:38 PM

Thanks for this. :)

Pandora's Aquarium, Inc. is not intended to be a substitute for professional assistance. All members and visitors are encouraged to establish a relationship with a trained counselor, therapist, or psychiatrist. Pandora's Aquarium, Inc. offers rape and sexual abuse survivor-to-survivor support only. Despite any qualifications staff or members possess, they are not engaged in a professional relationship with any other member. Survivors in crisis are urged to seek local help by contacting 911 or their local rape crisis center. Use of this website constitutes acceptance of the Terms of Service located here.