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Anybody else have weird triggers? Want to list them? (yes, *trigger warn*)

#316 User is offline   missmegan 

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Posted 03 September 2007 - 12:53 AM

I used to have triggers

Elvis presely songs
Men who look like my perps
Certain names
porn
any photos of women/girls in underwear
People who talk about the porn industry as if there's nothing wrong with it.
men who touch me without permission
Sex toys

Actually one thing really gets up my nose is catalogues where they have young girls wearing makeup. I hate it with a passion. That's about the only hang up I have these days.

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#317 User is offline   zorden 

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Posted 03 September 2007 - 09:02 AM

My strange trigger is...waking up..
as i find it so cold and lonely.....

#318 User is offline   Hidingfromwolves 

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Posted 03 September 2007 - 09:10 AM

OK I just discovered some that are different.....maybe not weird I don't know

God
Jesus
Gospel music

#319 User is offline   Goldie 

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Posted 04 September 2007 - 08:41 PM

Some Triggers for me,

Mullets
Cheap Cologne
Speedos
Netting
Yelling
Confrontation
Law & Order SVU

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Posted 18 September 2007 - 07:38 PM

Dolls.........

#321 User is offline   deej4 

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Posted 18 September 2007 - 08:17 PM

triggers, hmm...i hav quite a few :(/>
-guys with curly hair,
-certain songs (figured you out by Nickelback, Because of you by Kelly Clarkson, Dont tell me by AvrilLavigne),
-white cars,
-parties with drunk guys there,
-being outside or at a party after dark,
-being in the dark when im gettin ready to go to sleep (i hav to hav a light on or a flashlight),
-silence in a room when im by myself,
-any movie with violence btwn a man and a women,
-any man raising his hand/fist in the same vicinity as me even if its not to hit me,
-any guy yelling either at me or around me,
-a guy pushing me against a wall or on the floor (even if they're playing around),
-someone trying to come in contact with me (besides family members),
-any talk with sexual content,
-any guy trying to hit on me and i dont know them

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#322 User is offline   Goddess-of-Fate 

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Posted 19 September 2007 - 11:47 AM

My current triggers seem to be;

A particular type of vehicle (van)
Men with goatees or glasses (major trigger - i'm sure i scowl at every man who resembles him)
Situations where i'm not believed
insensitive comments from people re rape "jokes" etc
rape scenes in movies - not because of the scene per se, but because of the stupid portrayal they seem to have.

#323 User is offline   inocencia 

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Posted 25 September 2007 - 09:52 PM

Most of the usual ones.

But some of my weird ones include:

Farenheit perfume
Porcelain dolls
Peter Pan
Salvador Dali's "Christ of Saint John of the Cross" painting
Wooden stairs
Red carpets
Standing clocks (especially ones with chimes)
Silver trophies
Smell of cumin (spice)

#324 User is offline   halo 

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Posted 01 October 2007 - 02:48 PM

View PostGoldie, on Sep 4 2007, 09:41 PM, said:

Some Triggers for me,
Cheap Cologne


Me too. My main abuser always wore either Old Spice or Brute. Now all strong, cheap colonge, male or female variety makes me sick.

#325 User is offline   Silent2Long 

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Posted 01 October 2007 - 08:44 PM

I think my weirdest trigger is probably being stuck in traffic. It has absolutely nothing to do with what happened. But it's that sense of being trapped, and not able to get away.

#326 User is offline   SurvivingTheStorm 

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Posted 03 October 2007 - 06:02 PM

Guys with long blond hair. :blush:/>

#327 User is offline   Barbibear 

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Posted 03 October 2007 - 07:34 PM

Swings at the park, slides at the park...benches at the park
the smell of a park after they mow the lawn...
May trigger***
And the part in the movie, "saving private ryan" where the two soilders fight, and the one kills the other with a knife...just the way he says ...shhhhhh...its ok...as he's killing him...it just sends me reeling.
The smell of Shalimar perfume
Lollipops

#328 User is offline   Ezabelle 

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Posted 07 October 2007 - 05:50 AM

Promite and white caps. =\

#329 User is offline   KBeth07 

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Posted 07 October 2007 - 11:12 AM

Any mention of the following...

NASCAR/ any kind of racing
The phrase 'in a pickle'
the state of New Jersey
Goatees

#330 User is offline   thewindspeaks 

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Posted 08 October 2007 - 11:09 PM

Hi, Im new to this kind of thing...
I have some weird triggers, though i havent figured all of them out
-Having my arms grabbed or pinched forcefully
-a certain type of doorknob, just the sight of which sends me into a flashback
-very tall, blonde men

I have some pretty violent flashbacks, and im not really sure why
if anyone has more experience with it, any input would be great

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