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#766 paamboli

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Posted 14 October 2013 - 10:53 PM

having medical personnel tell me to take all my clothes off, including my underpants

the smell of black rubber, and having someone put a black rubber scuba diving cap on my head

being tickled

having a closed bedroom door ( I just took mine off entirely )


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#767 Understanding_Me

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Posted 14 October 2013 - 11:34 PM

thought of another one...

the feeling or even thought of a guy pressing against my back and feeling his manhood against my bum

makes me shiver just thinking about it. body memories back it up. *shudders*

and another...

recalling that it could happen again... (connects with the fear that my first attacker could come into my room and possibly do something to me)

Edited by Understanding_Me, 14 October 2013 - 11:40 PM.


#768 Paulalynne

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Posted 15 October 2013 - 09:59 AM

My triggers are:
Being out at night
Esp if men are around
Degrading of women in movies, tv, advertisements, magazines n songs etc
Women dressed immodest (even tho it's never never never an excuse for a man to assault anyone but just bc it's another way men look at women as sex objects)
The movie "The Accused" ugh!
Porn
Strip clubs
Hearing men gv "cat calls"
Men gawking at women

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Posted 15 October 2013 - 10:03 AM

Oh ya... Reading another post reminded me...
I hate being tickled now too
Or being chased
Or when a man is staring at me... I just wanna say "wth u lookin at?"

#770 Paulalynne

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Posted 15 October 2013 - 10:11 AM

I basicly don't watch any tv any more or movies

#771 MandyC

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Posted 15 October 2013 - 01:16 PM

rubbing alcohol- I was tortured with it...

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Posted 16 October 2013 - 01:39 PM

having medical personnel tell me to take all my clothes off, including my underpants

the smell of black rubber, and having someone put a black rubber scuba diving cap on my head

being tickled

having a closed bedroom door ( I just took mine off entirely )


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Hello paamboli,

I can relate to being triggered by being tickled. I hope that you are ok

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#773 lilyvanilla

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Posted 16 October 2013 - 06:59 PM

gummy bears. well actually anything gummy. [this isn't due to the SA it's due to something else].

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Posted 17 October 2013 - 05:03 PM

The smell of Monster energy drinks mixed with mint gum.

Pillow being held over my face.

The sound of a doorknob moving (like someone trying to get in who I was not expecting)

Someone I am not familiar with touching me

being pressed up against the wall

#775 mariam30061993

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Posted 11 February 2014 - 05:09 AM

Ya i too get triggers every night. It makes me so sad and my mind in full of tension. Whole night my mind is somewhere else. So many boys want me to have pleasure for them. So many sexual harrassments with lots of pain

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Posted 11 February 2014 - 01:32 PM

men.



#777 8888

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Posted 13 February 2014 - 11:56 AM

Same here canal.  Especially if they look like my perp.



#778 gettingold

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Posted 14 February 2014 - 05:42 PM

Stinky old people smell
Cowboy boots on men, especially when they are fat and have short beards
Hair dryers
Not being able to change out of wet swimming clothes fast enough
Men holding toddler aged girls
Older preteen aged girls sitting on men's laps
Mean teachers
People making young children kiss someone
People kissing children directly on lips

#779 JaffaCake

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Posted 15 February 2014 - 09:46 AM

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Posted 16 February 2014 - 05:58 PM

chicken and knives( there was an extra chickeney-smelling platter of chicken out that night. trigger.gif:trigger: he pulled a knife off of it and threatened me with it).

Edited by 8888, 16 February 2014 - 05:59 PM.



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