Hating "society" more than the abusers
The ones who don't believe survivors when they open up, or who blame the victims or make up all sorts of excuses for the perpetrator. The police and court system that so often fails to do its job in the first place, or aquits perps for the most outrageous reasons, or hand out ridiculously short sentences. 'Cause there's one simple fact that we just cannot get around here:
If it weren't for this kind of people, there wouldn't be as many rapes in the first place.
If potential abusers knew there was a high propability that victims reported; if survivors could speak without fear of being shamed or accused of making things up; and if perpetrators received proper sentences (I know that in some places they do, but that's not the case here in Norway) -- then there would be far, far less sexual assault in the world to begin with. You may hate r**ists all you want (trust me, I do too) but if society didn't permit and excuse SA as much as it does, trust me, it'd be far less common.
Am I the only one who feels this way?