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What are your healing ACCOMPLISHMENTS? give me at least one - you can do ir
Posted 08 November 2008 - 03:26 PM
That is mine as well.
You summed it up so beautifully.
I am so grateful for him, because without him, I don't know where I'd be.
Posted 18 April 2009 - 10:29 PM
Knowing there are probably always going to be triggers but knowing that I can handle anything becuase I love myself and I am so strong!
That sounds like me. :D/> I've also learned to relax around guys that I've known for a long time. (I'm still kinda :suspect:/> of ones that I barely know.)
Posted 18 April 2009 - 10:51 PM
overcome my fear of the dark
gone to the police and he's behind bars now.
found my soul mate - still don't know why he puts up with me though
joined here and chatted to people after finally realizing I was living made up life.
started wearing my hair how I want to - not how my mother did.
asked for help when I needed it.
I hope to soon say I can sleep through the night.
thanks to every-one.
Posted 19 April 2009 - 04:42 PM
Opening up to my friends and a few family members about what happened. Allowing them to support me and validate what happened to me.
I hope there will be more accomplishments for me in the future...
Posted 19 April 2009 - 07:18 PM
I'm working a full time job and providing for myself and my room mates.
I'm going to a therapist for counseling to work through my depression and PTSD.
I started taking a mild anti-depressant for my emotional unbalance, and it's helping me wonderfully.
I can look people in the eye again.
I'm drawing and writing and being creative again.
I'm less socially crippled and I don't flee the room at the slightest awkward moment anymore.
I went out on a limb and got half of my hair buzzed short in a punk style, despite the lingering thoughts that my grandmother would beat me for doing such a thing.
I've stopped wearing huge, frumpy clothes and I'm showing my curves again.
I've lost 30 pounds since this past November, just by eating healthier and drinking water.
I can cuddle with close friends and not flinch or shy away.
My nightmares have lessened drastically and my sleep has improved.
I don't feel hopeless and useless anymore.
I care about my appearance again. I like dressing up and putting on makeup and looking attractive, like I used to.
I can spend a day in public by myself and not hyperventilate.
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[color=#A9CAA8;background:#A9CAA8]I can touch myself and feel pleasure from it, instead of feeling numb or disgusting. [/color]
I've improved this much in the course of 5 and a half months. :P/>
This post has been edited by PandaFace: 19 April 2009 - 07:20 PM