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I DO remember my daughter telling me the other day that I am the most un-self absorbed person in the world. At first I felt that to be a great compliment. After thinking about that a moment and realized that what I think are my strengths my family views it as weaknesses.
My entire life I have lived by the philosophys to treat everyone as I would want to be treated. Also not to lower myself to the level of those who are cruel, judgemental and hurtful.
My mother says I am too nice. My daughter says I share and play well with others. I think what they really are say is that I am weak and a pushover and let others walk all over me.
So right becomes left, wrong becomes right, up is down. North is south. Love flows into hate. Joy spins to sorrow. Gratitude becomes greedy. Sad becomes happy. It is all mixed up.
I have stopped talking cuz I do not want to be reminded that my memory is suffering from my physical ailments and the meds I take for them.
I want to blog here with all that I have going on in my head but most of the time when I get here to type my brain goes blank and the words won't come.
Blessings to all