never be ashamed
Never feel ashamed to speak about it, Never feel ashamed to shout out and say, yes, i am affected by this. Never be scared of the truth, you did nothing wrong. Never feel like you should've or could've done more or that it's your fault. it's not! it's his!
If anyone has a problem with how you reacted to it, that's their problem, not yours. So I reacted in a way that you wouldn't have, so what, does that make me a bad person?! No!
Never feel like it's not rape, it is, even if you know him or didn't fight it or if it doesn't fit society's stereotype. and Remember, it's THEIR misconception of real rape.
I'm not ashamed anymore!