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Posted 11 March 2003 - 02:42 PM
Posted 16 April 2003 - 12:10 AM
my therapist when i was 15 and told about the r*pe where i was 9:
are u sure at least one man put his p*nis in ur v*gina? it was no r*pe otherwise.
(yes sure i asked what they where using in the moment....)
Posted 21 April 2003 - 01:21 PM
Posted 15 November 2002 - 10:30 AM
I have another stupid comment, don't think I've ever posted it here.
I recently told a new friend about what happened to me. I really respect him for his religious beliefs - I think his attitude toward life is one of the things that I enjoy most about him - but the way he applied that towards my revelation was truly disgusting.
He told me that maybe being raped was my karma - that it was my punishment because I had been a rapist in my last life, and what goes around comes around.
Posted 16 April 2003 - 01:50 AM
"I'm sorry that happened to you" was sounding pretty good, until she tacked on "but at least you're over it now. I really don't want to think about that. Wouldn't it be best if we just forget about it?"
Ummmm....Okaaaaay. WTF?! Nice of her to notify me that I'm "over" it...
Posted 30 June 2002 - 05:18 PM
I'm kinda, ya know, touchy touchy (oooo touchy!!) with some of my girlfriends, and a few of my boyfriends.
Friend: you shouldn't act like that.
Friend: cus you look like a slut.
Me: so I'm not suposed to be able to have fun with my boyfriend?
Friend: you just don't seem like you could be someone who's been raped.
(ooo, I was pissed..... I wanted to just shoot him for that...)
(Edited by BleedingTears at 7:19 pm on June 30, 2002)
Posted 02 July 2002 - 07:47 AM
Posted 11 November 2002 - 09:43 PM
I hear all the time that males are not really victims of abuse. It's as ignorant as saying a female "asked for it." Unfortunately it's gender blind.
Posted 20 July 2002 - 07:32 PM
God it's really shit when you get NO response whatsoever, 'specailly when it probably took a #### of a lot of courage for you to email her in the first place. Certainly a lot more courage than she had to say absolutely nothing, no matter how sympathetic you can be to why she didn't. Sorry you had to deal with that ((hugs)) - I've been in similar circumstances myself. Not a nice thing to contend with, I know.
Take care, luv Lea. :)
Posted 02 November 2002 - 01:00 AM
Posted 11 March 2003 - 08:17 AM