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Anybody else have weird triggers? Want to list them? (yes, *trigger warn*)
Posted 12 September 2012 - 09:57 PM
The smell of menthol cigarettes
Borken glass, plates, etc
White button down shirts
People touching me
People standing or walking behind me
Anything sexual: discussions, movie scenes, people kissing infront of me. Cant stand it. Its mostly the man aspect. I hate the thought of men kissing or grabbing. It makes me sick
Posted 04 October 2012 - 08:37 PM
If i'm in a room, doors have to be closed.
People coming into the bathroom while i'm in the shower.
Big Red Gum.
My feet being touched.
My husband touching my breast.
Two door cars.
Curtains on windows being open come evening.
Posted 13 October 2012 - 07:53 PM
*Tall men (anyone over 5'10" I avoid unless it's work related)
*Men I don't know well invading my space
*Being called sexy or being complimented on my body
*Being intimate (gives me nausea)
*When people don't believe something I've said (makes me want to burst into tears)
*Someone grabbing my arm as I'm trying to walk away
*Being hugged from behind
*Being silenced by someone else's hand over my mouth
*Having my wrists held down
*People who come near me when I'm asleep (I wake up screaming)
*Men who touch me inappropriately at a club
*People staring at me
*Having anyone standing over me when I'm laying on my back
*Being kissed unexpectedly
*Men who are muscular
*When my weight drops below a size 2 (too much attention)
*Hearing heavy breathing
*New Years Eve
*Hearing someone describe someone else as weak
Posted 16 November 2012 - 07:19 AM
Here mine, thankfully they are fairly benign and perhaps even quirky.
Walking or standing on a "hollow" feeling surface bothers me, but mainly if its a metallic one, like standing on an overturned bucket or standing on the roof of a car.
Also, bare feet in general irks me a lot, and seeing or thinking about my own feet when not wearing shoes and socks makes me feel guilty or unclean.
This post has been edited by Roaring_Gryphon: 16 November 2012 - 07:59 AM
Posted 27 November 2012 - 11:26 PM
Being alone in a house at night
Bathtubs..i know its weird
Loud noises/startling noises
People touching me
Cold/hard surfaces especially against face
Being held down
Certain words, especially abuse, victim, SA, and r*pe
Thats all for now
Posted 30 November 2012 - 06:44 AM
The indoor smell of some rooms.
Empty buildings with wooden floors like community halls etc.
Facial hair esp moustaches.
Watching people kiss.
Being touched unexpectedly (I even react when my kids do it, which I then feel horrible about).
Having my nipples touched.
Or sometimes, just being touched in any way.
Some fabrics (some cos of texture, some cos of pattern - I am esp not good with white material with blue flowers on it).
Some types of sunglasses.
People being too close to me.
Being locked in anywhere.
Being locked in a car is twice as bad.
Sleeping with someone else near me.
Someone standing behind me.
People watching me.
Not being able to see the exit, or not being able to see a clear path to it.
Peach air freshener.
There are also some streets/buildings that I can't even walk past.
And probably too many sexually-linked ones to list here....
This post has been edited by Wil: 11 December 2012 - 03:09 AM
Posted 01 December 2012 - 03:59 PM
-not being able to breathe when i'm sick with a cold or flu
-being held down
-the sound of heavy breathing
-the sound of loud heavy coughing
-cigars, cigar smoke
-old white farmhouses, old red barns - wooden floors, hay bales, corn fields, just a big mess of farm triggers..
-old men with white hair
-people standing behind me
-feeling trapped in rooms or cars or crowds
-screaming or violent anger
-smell of beer and weed smoke
-my birthday (the day after Valentine's Day)
-sexual related stuff