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Heartbroken...

28 July 2012
Posted by Szilvia 
I'm not sure exactly when or how, but my grandmother informed me that my dog died. My parents ought to be the ones relaying this information, but they have chosen not to. We haven't spoken in over a month. They don't believe in me and refuse to accept that they were in some way to blame for my abuse. And now this... How could they be so stubborn, childish, immature and selfish?

I'm not sure if I'm more upset about my sweet little dog dying or my parents not telling me. I'm so angry, hurt, and sad... I loved that dog so much. I'm debating whether to call, text or write an email. Thus far, I've done nothing to communicate with them as they've done the same. I'm really not sure what to do.

Any suggestions?

Ciao...xo,
Szil

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5 Comments On This Entry

Szilvia,

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved pet. I know how terrible that is, and I'm sorry that your parents didn't tell you. Perhaps they chose not to because they knew how upset you would be?

I'm sure your little dog is safely in Heaven now watching over you, and knows how much you loved him/her.

Sending you positive energy and hugs if okay :hug:
Irishleo, 28 July 2012 - 06:27 PM
I dont have any suggestions. Honestly, in your position, I think I'd rather hear it from my grandparents. But I do hope that you and your parents will one day make peace with one another if its possible, life is short.
Thinking Of You,
Heaven
HeavensDaughter, 28 July 2012 - 06:33 PM
I can totally relate to this... When I was away at college, my parents put my cat down (he'd been sick for a long time) and never bothered to tell me. You are totally justified in feeling everything you're feeling. I'm so sorry for your loss...
GuitarHero, 28 July 2012 - 09:11 PM
I'm sorry for your losses.... all of them. The dog, your relationship with your parents, everything.
MaybeJoleisa, 28 July 2012 - 11:40 PM
Thank you all... I really appreciate the thoughts and sentiments...

I'm so sad...

xo
Szilvia, 29 July 2012 - 08:48 AM
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