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Should I? Shouldn't I?

Those are the words that have been on my mind since I joined Pandy's.

Should I start a blog? Or should I just keep myself to myself more?

Heh... well.... going on over a year later, I've started my blog. I need a place to categorise things... to list things... to mark my progression in life.

A lot has happened since I joined the community here. The guy I was with and disclosed so much to, has since broke up with me for reasons only known to him. So! I threw myself into work. I needed to create something. Lots of things. And so, I set up an arts company.

But lately... I've met someone else... who is so like me it's rather ridiculous! I am just taking things as they come for the time being, and I'll go from there. I have no expectations as such... just seeing how things go.. and I think that's a good thing. :-)
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Hi Ophelia,

I'm glad to see your blog :)

It sounds like while you've had some heartache with your ex, you've also been able to turn a lot of that energy into something productive and hopefully empowering as well - that is really wonderful, and I have to say, a something that takes a huge amount of courage.

Best of luck with the person-who-is-just-like-you. They say opposites attract, but personally I've found that for me at least, opposites repel! My husband is so like me that sometimes we even say the same thing at the same time, which is weird. Weird in a good way - in my opinion anyway ;)

See how it goes... that's the only way you can take life, sometimes.

Take care,
Kate
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