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So I decided to listen to everyone and "take responsibility for my actions and the unfortunate consequences they have had". This meant that I would blame myself for all the times I've been attacked.
I thought it would help if I said that it just made a mistake instead of admitting that I've been assaulted and raped..
My ex (one of my attackers) talked to me about it and he said he was proud of me for coming to my senses. Because of him I should have had a one year old child, but thankfully I miscarried about a month into my pregnancy.
He told me that it was time to realize that it's happened to me over and over again because I'm too trusting and put myself out there.
I don't feel any better, but I don't know what else to do ...
I thought it would help if I said that it just made a mistake instead of admitting that I've been assaulted and raped..
My ex (one of my attackers) talked to me about it and he said he was proud of me for coming to my senses. Because of him I should have had a one year old child, but thankfully I miscarried about a month into my pregnancy.
He told me that it was time to realize that it's happened to me over and over again because I'm too trusting and put myself out there.
I don't feel any better, but I don't know what else to do ...
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They are all so wrong. You are not to blame. Those who keep hurting you like this are the guilty ones.
Untangling-It-All,
06 November 2011 - 07:05 PM
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