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Perception is nine thenth the rules

Posted by bellachai , 07 May 2013 · 58 views

These are the rules:

If you do not look like you have any serious illnesses then you are not ill.

If you do not do anything and/or do not work then you are lazy and worthless.

If you try real hard to be optimistic and positive then your ailments are all in your head.

If you do not look or speak in crazy ways then you do not have a mental illness and you are just faking it or you just need to get over it after all the past is the past. No need for a therapist.

If you are in pain every single day you do not get asked how you are and are ignored cuz it is the same thing everyday. People become desensitized to your pain and ignore you.

These rules is my perception of societies perceptions cuz it is my experiences for the last 4 years.

Blessings to all here.



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wavescalmme
May 07 2013 11:29 PM
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

I am so sorry people are so desensitized to you and your situation. I hope you know that I hear you and believe you in what you are dealing with in your every day life.

It is terrible that people are so rude and condescending to people with ailments and disabilities. I am here to listen and offer my care and support.

Thinking about you!
Waves
:metoyou:
i relate way too much.

i hope you do find another therapist one day...who treats you with the respect, empathy and understanding you need and deserve. soon.

when i went to concert on weekend in wheelchair, it was kind of amazing the difference in how people observed and treated me. have often thought just walking around, the little i can, with a cane or something.... (not that it would help physically, you know what i mean)....might change how people see and treat me a lot.

society sucks. you're not lazy at all, opposite, we fight so damn hard. and you never have and never will be worthless.

family/friends who stop asking us how we are suck too. that's happened to me too. only person who asks me is my t.

love you always (((bella))).
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yarnfoolishness
May 08 2013 02:54 PM
I relate to this. I'm sorry you've endured it also. :hug:

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