If You Haven't Been There...
Just because I choose to keep the baby does NOT mean I "asked" for it!! If that's what you think, you can go to hell!
This was said to me by someone recently. Someone I really would not have expected to hear it from. You know what? It's NOT the child's fault he was conceived! It's NOT my fault I was raped! And I will NOT punish a child for sins he did NOT commit!
If you think my choice of keeping the baby means I "wanted it" or "asked for it on some level" then stay the hell away from me, because the next time you say something like that to me, I am going to deck you so hard your momma will feel it!!
People REALLY need to get that through their head! We had NO SAY and NO CHOICE in what was DONE to us. Do NOT try to take our CHOICE in what to DO with our pregnancy and make it into an admission of GUILT! I am SO SO SO SICK of the victim-blaming crap!!
*snarls* F*k 'em, the whole lot of 'em!
...just had to air that and get it out. Think I feel a little better now.