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When asked: Why didn't you fight harder what do you say. *T*
Posted 18 February 2012 - 12:57 AM
Posted 18 November 2012 - 09:45 AM
However, I've constantly demanded this of myself for the longest and here are the answers I give myself:
1. If I had done so the first time, the suffering I endured from the perps would have been far more severe
2. The first time made me feel undeserving or incapable of resisting the other times.
This post has been edited by Roaring_Gryphon: 18 November 2012 - 09:47 AM
Posted 29 November 2012 - 01:14 AM
For me, I was totally drunk and I didn't even have any chance at all...
But if I wasn't, honestly, I really don't know how I would have reacted...
So I think my answer would be "What do you know? Have you been through it?"
This post has been edited by TrishaTeo: 29 November 2012 - 01:18 AM
Posted 02 May 2013 - 08:40 AM
my wife made me feel better when i told her this was how i felt. she said 'laurie you could either do it or do it with a broken jaw. you did nothing wrong'
i love her :wub:/>
Posted 02 May 2013 - 09:14 AM
But the short answer is: don't you think I would have stopped it if I could have, if I knew how?
Posted 03 May 2013 - 09:29 AM