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Alternative remedies - share your thoughts What has worked for you? what has not?
Posted 29 October 2003 - 04:59 AM
1) drink 1/2 of your body weight, in ounces, per day in order for your "neurotransmitters to work properly"
2) Take Turmeric extract for the "curcumin" in it - for a whole host of reasons (including: backpain (anti-inflammatory), liver health, atherosclerosis, gallstones, and the irritable bowel syndrome and is recommended in cancer prevention).
I know that there are about a billion herbal remedies out there - have any of you found them to be particularly helpful?
Posted 29 October 2003 - 05:10 AM
massages with a peppermint and lavender oil stick - helps with some other headaches and even migraines
acupuncture, acupressure - headaches and migraines
tiger balm - colds, sore muscles, headaches, and a million other little woes
lavender (in tea, lotions - there's a wonderful good night baby lotion---so nice) - calms me a great deal
inhaling camomilla and peppermint oil - great for colds
sea water nose spray w/ zink
infrared light - wonderfully warm hehe, great for ear infections, sinusitis, back pain, menstruation pain...and cold feet!
hot packs in the neck, ice packs on the forehead and over the eyes- some headaches
large quantities of green tea - blood pressure and headaches
tons of herbal teas - for sleep, stomach probs (ginger!!!) and a ton of other things
dude i feel like a witch in my hut full of herbal stuff...just gimme some proper medication
Posted 29 October 2003 - 06:45 AM
massage has been wonderful for me - along with yoga, in helping with tense muscles and more awareness of what is going on with my body.
acupuncture - as wonderful as a massage!
lavender is awesome - a drop on your pillow will help you sleep - more than that will be stimulating and keep you awake. It is also good for headaches, burns in the kitchen.
chamomile tea before bed will help you sleep.
echinacea, taken ten days on, ten days off, will help boost your immune system and help you keep from getting colds during the winter time. If you take it continually, it will lose it's effectiveness...
ginseng is great for energy.
for anyone on medications, though, check with a pharmacist before starting anything herbal. Some herbal medications can actually be dangerous or reduce effectiveness with some of the antidepressants and other medications that you might be taking.
Posted 29 October 2003 - 09:31 AM
Posted 29 October 2003 - 11:34 AM
Body Pure, for detoxing
I just started taking the Calming one about a month ago. I have panic attacks. What I found is that if I am getting real tense, (I still have emotion memories coming up), that if I put a tablet under my tongue, in a few moments I start just crabbing about a whole bunch of stuff. My mouth just goes on and on, which is real funny for me cause I am so quiet most of the time. Within a few moments, I've stopped and I am peaceful. Its like I had this stuff stuck in my throat and it wouldn't come out, but this helped it to. Once its out, I feel better. Its kinda fun.
Same with the exhaustion one. If I am bodily tired, it puts me right to sleep. Like for some reason I didn't know I was resisting, but with this stuff I don't have a choice. It seems to get me to what I need most.
Also, Aconite. If I have gone through a really traumatic event and am shaking, aconite just calms me down real good. It doesn't change anything, but takes the freak out away, and the shaking.
Homeopathy works only if you have the symptoms for it. Like the Calming one for restlessness, anxiety, pms, insomnia.
One more: Depression by Nova is a homeopathy for Grief, anxiety, despair and melancholy. Its a liquid. It kinda numbs me out, like buzzy & don't care.
Vitamins, I read for depression, so I started taking them. It seemed to regulate my crazy up and downs. The combo I take is B6, Bmulti, Cal/Mag, Multi, Phenalanine, and it suggests chromium, a, and something called tryptophan??? But I don't have those. It is to support the brain chemicals, like the Seratonin, dopamine, norepinephrine, gaba? and enkaphalins? i wrote this all down and then my other computer crashed so I will have to try to find the site again. It appears to be working a bit. I mean I did it for a while and actually felt like my old self, but then I couldn't get food one day and freaked out and couldn't take anything after that. I've been an adrenaline junky (fast cars, repeating, scary stuff), going through withdrawals. Supposedly the combination of vitamins helps bring the brain chemicals (depletion and too much) back into alignment. I don't remember the amounts to take, but I will try to find the site again.
THe green leaf is the best thing I have ever found to calm me down. It puts me right into meditative state and I can sleep. I can get a good perspective, a better perspective on what is going on. It actually was taking me out of that horrible adrenaline cycle, you might know of it... tenseness, panic, then relief, tenseness, panic, relief. But I cannot get it that often.
And oh my gosh..... The very bestest of all!!!!! I don't know how to say this.. Ok, if you can meditate - that is SO cool. I've had a hard time since this all started (flashbacks, and the like). But there are these tools I found that can be used to put one in a meditative state, and they help people calm down before a massage or any kind of body work, i heard. I have one of these and sleep with it every night. I don't have trouble staying asleep at all. There is a site: shambhaladharmacenters.com At the bottom of the page is a place to click. then look for the catalog. Alot of the writing is about what they are doing to help humanity, but the tools are under catalog. I have a vajra and a etheric weaver.
And the very last thing, helping others. the vitamins, balanced diet, sleep, and play time (don't do enough of this), combined with meditation and joyful body experiences, should be the key to an easier transition.
Ok, i'm done. thank you.
Posted 29 October 2003 - 11:55 AM
First thing is I wouldn't know which flowers to choose since I have so many symptoms and if I remember this right you can only combine max. 3 kinds.
Second is, I could still try the rescue remedy one at least, but I've read horror stories of how this can really mess up already mentally unstable people on another survivor site.
Can anyone shed some light on this, it's something I'd be really interested in trying.
More alternative stuff I've thought of:
Autogenous training - the best relaxation technique I know, easy to learn and to do, and you can tailor it according to your own needs
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) - I know a lot of people swear by this, for relaxation and to help with stress-related headaches or back pain. I have tried this myself and would not recommend it, I always ended up panicky or triggered, but that could be because it's just too close to the body.
Posted 29 October 2003 - 07:44 PM
The best way to use them is to just pick one, any one. It's like your highest self will pick it out for you. If you have a lot of symptoms, the one chosen will be the most important aspect that needs to be addressed at the moment. And you add a drop or two to a glass of water and sip it during the day. You can even put a few drops of Flower Remedies in your bath. Rescue Remedy is great for trauma. Its great for pets too.
Here is a quote from a book about them: .."there is a direct link between man's unconscious and th eplant kingdom. Man is therefore able to contact his own essential nature of Higher Self at an unconsciuos level, through plant nature, and so restore harmony within himself."
Usually at the store, there will be a free flyer that sums up what the remedy is about. There are books that explain them in detail. A really in depth book about each Bach Remedy is: Bach Flower Therapy, by Mechthild Scheffer. Its $12.95. But there are plenty of others that I'm sure are good too.
Just remember when you read the descriptions, that they are very general, and that the healing is in the vibrational aspects of the remedy itself. Knowing the attitudes that they are addressing is good to help let it go. But don't take them word for word.
Posted 31 October 2003 - 12:05 AM
Herb-wise, valerian, mint and chamomile are good when I'm stressed.
A few years ago, I was having massive problems with my joints (arthritis-like symptoms). None of the doctors I went to were able to diagnose anything or do anything to make it better. I went to a Chinese herbalist, had him take my pulses and ask all sorts of personal questions, and he prescribed this *wierd* concoction I had to make into a tea and drink 3 times a day. It was the foulest thing I've ever tasted, but within a week, my joints were doing fine. I can't find him anymore, which is a shame, cause I'd definitely go back to him.
One of my friends is a reiki practitioner, and that's really worked well for me.
Posted 19 November 2003 - 01:16 AM
does it lead to tolerance if you take it regularly?
if it does, I'll have to reserve it for really extreme situations and exams, if it doesn't I'd take it every morning before uni
Posted 30 November 2003 - 11:33 AM
About 3 years ago, I began yoga, which certainly turned out to be something other than what I had expected. I would often feel close to tears during the 10-minute relaxation time at the end of each session. As time went by, I suddenly noticed that I hadn't had an attack in quite a long time. I have been essentially symptom-free for 3 years now--occasionally I will feel somewhat edgy & as if one might be on its way, but it never develops into a fullblown panic attack. This is by far the longest I have ever gone without having problems in that area.
If anyone does decide to pursue this idea, I would offer a few hints:
1) when choosing a yoga class/teacher, try to find a teacher w/many years of experience in yoga rather than some aerobics teacher who took a weekend class in teaching yoga. It is important that your teacher be gentle & understand the deeper aspects of yoga, not just put you thru a series of postures.
2) again, if you can possibly find a class conducted at a place that specializes in yoga rather than the local YMCA, you will probably have a better experience & find more guidance as to what will help you as an individual
3) when looking at the type of yoga (and there are many types), try to look for the more gentle ones, such as hatha yoga, or especially kripalu (word means compassion) yoga. These types will help you to be gentle & loving with your body, mind, & soul. Perhaps the more active types, such as ashtanga or Iyengar (focuses on alignment) would be helpful to some people, but as a perfectionist, they only add to my stress/demands for achievement on myself.
Yoga works naturally w/meditation, if you are inclined that way. And should this be a concern to anyone, yoga is NOT a religion--it can incorporate Buddhist or Hindu aspects if YOU want it to, otherwise nothing is contained or implied.
I feel strongly that there are many misconceptions about yoga practice, & hope this may clarify it a bit for anyone who is curious.
Posted 13 December 2003 - 11:01 AM
I used to get migraines ALL the time (severe ones that made me throw up and go temporarily blind)- I went to a nutritionist and he gave me Parathyroid Complex which has mostly stopped the migraines.
I have issues with my kidneys so I take Cranberry pills that work wonders.
Flax seed and Cod liver oil help the brain get the right nutriants, and have helped my 3 year old who has ADHD.
And for my depression I take 5-HTP and Theinine- both help the brain work correctly. Believe me Im crazy either way, but by taking these I keep my senses pretty well :)/>
Im a firm believer in Natural meds and Rx meds. Both are very important and I use both to maintain my health as best as possible. I dont think u can use one without consulting the other just because both working together can actually help more :)/>
I might not be making sense, I only had 3 hrs of sleep last night :)/>
Posted 15 January 2004 - 07:39 PM
i have a vaporiser and dilute essential oils with carrier oils and massage myself. also compresses for aches and pains.
lavender is calming relaxing and balancing
ylang ylang is soothing and comforting
my bad mood mix is lavender ylang-ylang and jasmine
to lift my spirits i try jasmine and bergamot
when i'm getting ready to go out or for parties i use black pepper and sandalwood
for severe emotional crises i use camomile and rose
tea tree is great as an antiseptic type for wounds
eucalyptus and peppermint are great for colds
peppermint and ginger are good for upset stomachs [no do not drink them.... inhale from a diffuser or steam bowl or massage onto tummy]
rosemary is good for study and headaches
i find the smell of clove oil quite warming and comforting
but i am not sure of its benefits yet
i also use bach rescue remedy and that is quite helpful when things are intense.
Posted 09 June 2009 - 04:06 PM
Posted 10 June 2009 - 11:28 PM
GABA-works with the same neurotransmitters in the brain as something like Xanax or Valium would but with your body's natural chemistry and doesn't give you that drugged out feeling....
I love lavendar for relaxing, bergamot....
I try to find as much homeopathic stuff as I can, that's all I use for my kids aside from if they really need Tylenol or antibiotics.....