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support for those supporting survivors

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Posted 23 January 2011 - 05:14 AM

I may have not understood this properly, but this site is brilliant for me for mutual support - but my husband is finding that he needs support too as he is struggling to help me.

Don't get me wrong, I do want him to have help, but I don't want him seeing what I share. Is there somewhere on this site for supporters - but restricting their viewing? A purely selfish question, so if it's unreasonable please forgive me.

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Posted 23 January 2011 - 09:55 AM

Hi Cappo,

Yes, we do have a section for supporters - secondary survivors as they're known here.

http://pandys.org/fo...showtopic=50393

That link will give you more info.

Here is another site just for supporters, started by some Pandy's members: http://herodes.2.forumer.com/

So glad this site is helpful for you and I hope your husband finds support too!

Shannon

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Posted 23 January 2011 - 12:38 PM

Thanks for this. :)/>

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