No is no. Maybe is not yes. If you force or manipulate someone, it isn't yes. It isn't consent. If he or she is underaged, it is no. If you have a weapon it is no. If you are her or his partner it isn't automatically yes. It can be no. Everyone has the right to say no at any point. We can change our mind. We do not owe you anything. Only yes is yes. In every other case it is no. And it is assault.
You do not prove your strenght or masculinity by forcing us in any way. You do not show how great you are by taking it. Only yes is yes. Only real consent counts. In any other case, you are simply wrong. Real men and real women do not take it, they receive it. They receive it by free will. They don't rape or sexually assault anyone.