Jump to content






Photo

My dog is my saviour.

Posted by kanata , 07 March 2012 · 102 views


My dog Annie saved my life. I try to explain that to people but no one gets it. They say that I love her too much and that I can't make my dog my life. But she is. She is all I live for now.

I've had her four months today. A month before I got her I was in the ICU for a suicide attempt. While in the utterly useless psych ward I had a dream. In it I was being invited in to enter death's house and I was eager to go in and have tea with the people there. A strange dog kept bumping me away from the door. Kept blocking the way and whining at me when I put my hand on the door. Pulling at my cloths to get away. Like they knew it was bad to go in.

A week after I got out of the hospital I decided to look for a dog. This was going to be my one last shot at living. If I could find a dog and bond with it then maybe I could stay alive. If I couldn't I'd give the dog back and end it all.

A week later I brought home Annie and something in my soul woke up. She's a rescue from America where she had been abused by past owners, been attacked as a stray on the street by strange dogs, and burnt by the pound that took her in. She was slated to die the next day. People saved her and got her well enough to travel to Canada. We share a soul I think.

Sure there is the physical changes she has made in me. Losing 40lbs, walking 1-2 hours a day. But there is so much more. I'm learning to have a voice again. To speak up for my dog's welfare. Yes, I will take her to the vet when she's hurt even if no one in my family believes in health care for animals. No, you may not chase her when playing because she cowers. Small things but giving me the chance to speak where I always have remained silent.

The most healing thing for me is our walks. I can get in the car and drive to a trail and push my body hard in the woods for a couple of hours a day. I can be alone among the trees and rivers and let myself feel. I can cry. I can double over in sobs, feeling like I am being choked. I can angrily stomp up a hill. Knowing that no one will hear me and unlike my family my dog won't judge me for displaying emotions. That she'll just show concern if I'm being upset and come and lick my hand before leaping in the woods and making me smile.

She wakes me up from nightmares, has made me feel more at ease with another being touching me. She has saved my life.

So shut up all the people I know about loving an animal too much. For her being my life. She is the only reason I continue to wake up in the morning and I would rather save her life than any of yours.



I am so happy for you. I am happy you have been saved by your dog. I am happy you saved her. I am glad you found someone who is helping you heal. I am positive she is happy you are there for her in her healing process. There is nothing wrong with seeing her for what she is and has done. There is nothing wrong with loving her the way you do.
There is nothing wrong with loving your dog.
I am so happy for you. Many don't understand that animals are very much like you and me in emotions and bonding and love is the same as a human.

I understand u completely!
I am so happy that u found a reason to live and it sounds like u saved Annie too :)
I have a Springer Spaniel called Milo - he is 3 now and we brought him home when he was 9 weeks old.
We lost our previous dog 18 months before that, and were all heartbroken when he had to be put to sleep because of illness - my children were brought up with him ( his name was Tod )He was 12.
This furry little bundle of mischief came into our lives and we all fell in love!
Milo and i spend all day together as everyone is out at school or work and i would be lost without him. I have a spinal injury and so am home most of the time. He comforts me when im in pain, if im anxious or triggered he seems to know and stays by me and when i fell ( which happens sometimes ) he sat by me until the paramedics arrived and wouldnt move :)
Dont listen to anyone who says u shouldnt love your dog as much as u do - she is part of your family and u have a bond with each other that cant be broken.
Love to u and of course Annie.x

August 2015

S M T W T F S
      1
2345678
9101112131415
16171819202122
23242526272829
30 31      

Recent Entries

Recent Comments

Categories

Pandora's Aquarium, Inc. is not intended to be a substitute for professional assistance. All members and visitors are encouraged to establish a relationship with a trained counselor, therapist, or psychiatrist. Pandora's Aquarium, Inc. offers rape and sexual abuse survivor-to-survivor support only. Despite any qualifications staff or members possess, they are not engaged in a professional relationship with any other member. Survivors in crisis are urged to seek local help by contacting 911 or their local rape crisis center. Use of this website constitutes acceptance of the Terms of Service located here.