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What is Rape mark II Validation, I hope xxxx
Posted 05 May 2003 - 05:17 PM
I never though of this particulare incidence of my with another man, to be a rape, But if your right I need to rethink things. I acceped it at first, then started to cry and asked him to stop, and get off of me, he did but at his convenience, what i mean is untill he finished, which wasnt long, but i asked him to stop and he didnt. I have never ever thought of that as a rape. The reason i stoped was because it was the first time i had sex after remembering about the sexual abuse i experanced as a child and i just wasnt ready.
Posted 29 July 2003 - 11:08 PM
Posted 25 August 2001 - 04:49 AM
That was a wonderful post hard to read but wonderful, i am crying as i am writing this reply, When the Detective was trying to sort everything out he said to my friend
"even if she had consented to go to the room
and they had started kissing etc, as soon as
said no he MUST stop, like you said when
someone is crying and being held down with
the weight of the other then yes it is"
You are such an inspiration Racheal
Posted 25 August 2001 - 09:49 PM
I'm humbled and glad to have helped. There are experinces in my own life that I would have seen as not "real" rape for a long time, but now I do without equivocation. It's extremely painful when something hurts so badly, to keep asking yourself if you are making too much out of nothing.
Love Rachel xxx
PS Shannon, I'm really glad it's good enough for the Wonderful Threads!
And I chewed it over a bit more and have made a few editings for anyone interested--I had to write in a rush yesterday as I had the opportunity of 24 child-free hours away; wasn't going to pass that one up!
Posted 21 December 2001 - 10:02 PM
Posted 30 April 2003 - 03:52 PM
Posted 01 August 2003 - 08:36 PM
**T** btw, Mich. law considers "sexual contact" to be things other than actual penetration, though it seems as if they might consider penetration of anythign to be penetration...
750.520c Criminal sexual conduct in the second degree; felony.
(1) A person is guilty of criminal sexual conduct in the second degree if the person engages in sexual contact with another person and if any of the following circumstances exists:
(a) That other person is under 13 years of age.
Posted 24 November 2003 - 07:53 PM
I'm desperately trying to find this thread...you dont even know how important this could be...please please help me find it...the search button isnt working...