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tired of getting thrown in the trash dumpster at school
on Sep 23 2007 08:30 PM
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If the guy is much bigger than you then you could get hurt, I know a litte bit about this.
Bulking up is a good idea but it isn't like it is just going to take ou a couple of weeks and you can beat them.
I had a quick look at your Photo, unfortunately you seem to be built fairly lightly. this means that you will probably not bulk up a real lot. You will still gain strength but you would be better focusing on speed rather than strength. I am the opposite of you and bulk up really easily, both have their advantages, personally I would prefer not being hit to being able to cop a base ball bat in the stomach.
If you size up to them you will most likely get yourself hurt/ hurt worse.
Maybe though they will then think you are too much trouble and pick on someone else. However they may think it is great that you fight back because it gives them more power.
Like I said, I know a bit about this. I was often facing 5 or more at once. I did Judo and one day dumped one of them on their ass and hurt him. the others just planted me and I was left unconcious in the gutter.
You need to be smarter than them.
Have you told the teachers, your parents? I don't think they will do much but at least you can turn around and say i told you what was happening.
I was never listened to by these people but you have to at least try ok.
Maybe Keep a diary of what they do and when they do it, put as much detail down as you can, it is really hard to dismiss a diary (I used one at work to prove that i was doing work I wasn't getting paied for and got a 30 % pay rise) when you are really upset and just can't get the words out, the diary can say it for you.
Do you have any mates at school? do they have phone cameras? It is a little hard to lie in the face of photos and then the school is duty bound to act or they will get in trouble, sued. Just get your friends to send them to a teachers phone or print them out and shove them under the office door. I wish I had access to the technology that you guye have now.
Just be careful ok and if you have no choice then fight for your life.
Good luck ok
Let me know what happens or if you want advice on working out.
regards
Steve