i had the worst experience at the gyno about a year ago. i was filling out the paper work before hand and i gott really weird when it came to the abuse questions ( i was just beginning to question my experiences) and then when it came time for the exam the woman was so rough with the speculum that my vagina closed right up! it took 3 nurses 20 mins to get inside me. they asked me if i was a virgin! about half way thorough i started doing these breathing exercises (which totally triggered me) and i started sobbing, and i never cry in public. it was awful. afterwards the nurse gave me a card for a social worker. i guess that's the kinda treatment you get when you go to the health department. my prior visit was just fine, but you never get the same dr. there.