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EVH's Blog 2. T-Homework / What have you learned? I've learned that - it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it - the most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said - knowledge speaks, but wisdom listens - when a defining moment comes along, you can do one of two things. Define the moment, or let the moment define you - no one can go...	EVH	39 Entries 26 Comments / 4,301 Views	2. T-Homework / What have you learned? Last activity: Yesterday, 05:29 PM
CoachRachelG's Blog Rachel, a Trauma Recovery & Relationship Coach, shares resources, personal stories, communication techniques, and strategies for improving relationships, communication, or overcoming past trauma. What Are the Payoffs & Costs? I recently wrote about the many false beliefs that arise as a result of abuse and how these shape our expectations, which then compel us to prove particular things about ourselves, others, and relationships. Now, we want to take a look at how we are expressing ourselves based on our limiting beliefs. There are three distinct ways of being that...	CoachRachelG	17 Entries 12 Comments / 1,698 Views	What Are the Payoffs & Costs? Last Entry: Yesterday, 03:09 PM
. . living hell apparently im not taken seriously and./or mocked at work.	Zelda	24 Entries 42 Comments / 1,914 Views	living hell Last activity: Yesterday, 11:46 AM
tamjohn70's Blog My thoughts and confusion stuck confusion tired I am feeling stuck right now. Don't know if I should go to the left or right. I am not going to reach out anymore to people. I am discovering that as much as the few who know about me say they want to be supportive or be there they really cannot handle it. I am not upset with them I just wish people would stop saying what is "politically...	tamjohn70	11 Entries 9 Comments / 217 Views	stuck confusion tired Last activity: Yesterday, 09:53 AM
How to save a life. Finding the good within myself. For how many insecurities I have, today I feel pretty confident. In this moment I am going to take advantage and make a list of things I like about myself. I know it will not be easy, but next time I struggle I plan to use this list to help me remember I'm a good person. 1. I have a nice smile. 2. I think I have nice hair. 3. I'm nice....	Kaity	12 Entries 12 Comments / 755 Views	Finding the good within myself. Last Entry: Yesterday, 12:28 AM
Szilvia's Blog Envious Psychosomatic Response The more I uncover, the more I feel physically ill. I can't turn back now, but how much can a person reexperience of past happenings? The mind is a powerful thing. Where does it end? When do I know that I've hit rock bottom?	Szilvia	10 Entries 27 Comments / 526 Views	Psychosomatic Response Last activity: Yesterday, 06:57 PM
blondie2002's Blog When is it my turn to be happy? I'm tired of feeling like nothing ever wants to go my way, /> Example #1: I haven't had a job since 2008, and I've gone through VocRehab (it helps people with disabilities find work) I can't count how many times, with little success. /> So, I don't really have much to keep my busy outside...	blondie2002	48 Entries 80 Comments / 3,771 Views	When is it my turn to be happy? Last activity: Yesterday, 01:42 AM
Wil's Blog My Therapy It's okay; I'm okay! Time to move on... Today I had a good T session. I felt so much lighter and relieved afterwards. If I had any emotions going on at the moment, I'd have felt happy, I'm sure of it. I've spent this week going through things mentally and phew, it felt really good to say them out loud. I need to put some of this down now before it filters away. What...	Wil	14 Entries 21 Comments / 1,013 Views	It's okay; I'm okay! Time to move o... Last activity: Yesterday, 05:32 AM
writer2010's Blog Lately Been 'rewarding' myself as T mentions especially since I burned out real bad this past Nov-Jan by always work work working and not really taking breaks. And with all of the past family stuff, just really hit my hard. But just wanted to say that I feel like I am getting better each day by praying and self-talking out of the anxiety before...	writer2010	113 Entries 59 Comments / 4,598 Views	Lately Last activity: 20 May 2013 - 05:37 PM
Mion_Xilolo's Blog Day to Day struggles of a Survivor Just another day Woke up and tried my best not to come to pandys today. It really makes me sad how much I need this place, I am very happy this place is here to help. I guess im just sad cause i need it. If my life never turn on that day when i was 10 i would never of had to find this place /> time to get to my normal day. dishes and house work yeah	mion_xilolo	4 Entries 1 Comments / 59 Views	Just another day Last Entry: 20 May 2013 - 07:26 AM
HelloSalami's Blog ERROR - NO ENTRY DATA	HelloSalami	0 Entries 0 Comments / 9 Views	Last Entry: --
Evie03's Blog My day to day struggles she is out and i dont wanna see her so my mother is out of hospital. came out last week. hasnt talked to me for a few days. which has been nice. is that bad to think? i just feel so more me when im not worrying all the time about her. shes never really been a mother to me. i dont even call her that, i call her by her first name. me and my bf are doing better now. more on an even...	Evie03	20 Entries 35 Comments / 526 Views	she is out and i dont wanna see her Last Entry: 19 May 2013 - 09:41 PM
One.Day.'s Blog Dark What happens when everything seems to have lost its beauty? The little bits of happiness unravelled into nothing. The morning sun, the warm breeze, a smile, the sand under your feet, the night sky, the echoes of the waves. Nothing but dark. Empty. Void. What happens when there is no energy to fight? Time seems to just pass. Nothing of...	one.day.	32 Entries 28 Comments / 2,437 Views	Dark Last Entry: 19 May 2013 - 02:29 PM
my blog so hard... Everything has become so hard for me lately. Even writing this here, now, is just so hard. I honestly don't know how much I can manage to put down into words. I have been so overwhelmed. I feel overwhelmed. I am just full of anxiety, and anger. I'm always depressed. Some moments are worse than others. I got triggered the other...	missophelia	1,065 Entries 2,706 Comments / 26,175 Views	so hard... Last activity: 20 May 2013 - 06:57 PM
Steps Towards Happiness Strange Dreams I'm starting to sleep better, but last night was strange. I don't know either to call this a dream or a nightmare. I remember going to school, and I see him. I saw myself beginning to freak out. When he came near, I began getting really fighty. But then it changed. I saw myself sitting with other people. But then I saw two hands coming...	TheSilentWanderer	4 Entries 0 Comments / 64 Views	Strange Dreams Last Entry: 18 May 2013 - 01:35 PM
Ineloquent's Blog So I did it I finally admitted to my mum today that I felt like the world was going to crash around me if I kept going on like I was. I asked if it would be OK to move home, maybe take a year out, and try and sort myself out. Get counselling. Look at my options for the next year. Her reply? "You do not need to ask to come back home. It is your home for...	Ineloquent	1 Entries 1 Comments / 24 Views	So I did it Last activity: 20 May 2013 - 03:48 PM
fairies' Blog ERROR - NO ENTRY DATA	fairies	0 Entries 0 Comments / 14 Views	Last Entry: --
jessie72's Blog Random Thoughts How can I call him what he is when he's so normal? So I know this isn't advisable but I was sneaking a look at his facebook page. I guess I did it to try and desensitize myself to his face, his presence. He lives near the sports centre where I am a member. I've tried going elsewhere but this is the one where I can afford the membership and I find myself getting angry when I realise...	jessie72	2 Entries 4 Comments / 105 Views	How can I call him what he is when he's so ... Last activity: 19 May 2013 - 06:23 AM
AudraRose88's Blog Intimidated Something So Small... It amazes me how I can attach to something so small, and the slightest fear of losing that small something can cause you to fall right back in the same darkness you had just stepped out of. A small kitten, I have only had him for about five hours, but in those five hours he sat on my lap, and he was comfort to me. Then I am told I have to give him...	AudraRose88	3 Entries 4 Comments / 45 Views	Something So Small... Last activity: 20 May 2013 - 03:49 PM
My Rant. .... venting I feel soooo absolutely horrible. I feel like I am such a burden to patti and rick. Theyve told me they love me...but about a week ago there was a HUGE fight and I felt like complete shit..I didn't understand it at all and tonight I was trying so hard to understand everything but he didn't feel like talking...I should've respected that...	bellaroo	45 Entries 52 Comments / 3,149 Views	venting Last activity: 20 May 2013 - 03:55 PM

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