Entry No.72.Take a piece of paper and make three columns, titled "yes," "maybe" and "no". In the "yes" column, list all the sexual activities that you enjoy or think you would enjoy. In the "maybe" column, list all the sexual activities that you enjoy under certain circumstances or that you might be willing to try. In the "no" column, list all the sexual activities that you do not enjoy and do not want to explore. Include both masturbation and partner sex. Now, look at your lists. Which column most closely resembles your current sex life?Yes
:Partnered, safe, lesbian, lesbian threesome, strap-on, fisting [giving], oral [giving], kissing, naked massage, 100% consensual, sweet nothings whispered to the other person, fully conscious, sex with someone of a different race [I've been with mostly white and one asian person] and another black woman, sex in a public place [I've done this before and would like to do this again], Someone close to my age group, a muscular woman, a butch lesbian, a femme lesbian, a bisexual woman, attend a sex party, a famous person [whether they're out of the closet or not], after showering together, spend a few days in bed together, with someone who loves me as much as I love them.Maybe
:Bisexual threesomes [with a gay/bisexual man and another woman], rimming, casual, lesbian orgy, S&M, 99.9% consensual, Role-playing, anal sex [me being on top], sex with a transsexual [either ftm or mtf], someone younger/older than me but not too much, sex with a person heavier than I [5-15 lbs], someone divorced/widowed, a massage where the masseuse "finishes me off", straight women who are "curious", gay men who are "curious", with someone who loved me but I found mildly attractive.No
:Non-consensual, while unconscious, threesomes with 2 men, someone under-aged or way too old for me, someone from jail, incestuous, besiality, golden showers, rainbow showers, recorded on video [Paris Hilton, Rob Lowe, Pam & Tommy, etc], with friends, with co-workers/managers, extra-marital affair, rape fantasy, someone who begs and pleads and won't leave me alone, with someone I met through a chat room, with someone I was in love with but didn't give a rat's ass about me.As far as which of the lists resembles my present sex life: I'm celibate right now, so none of them do. I could pick a few from the "no" pile that have resembled my past relations, some from the "yes" pile, but not too many from the "maybe" pile.