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every couple of days or so i would check the website to see if there was a release date for my ex (my abuser). he was in prison for failure to register as a sex offender. i checked again...and he was scheduled for release. i once again became consumed with figuring out where he was actually being released to. it's about a 5 hr drive from here...under "mandatory supervision" i guess that's parole or something. now...i don't know what to think or do. people who don't really know him, say he's got other things to worry about and he won't be coming to look for me or my girls. those who have seen what an asshole he can be...say "watch your back". i don't know what to think.
the day he was released, my dogs woke me up at like 4am, growling and snarling next to me in the bed. then, the same day i found a house key that "appeared" in the cup holder between the seats in my car. i have no idea where that came from. finally got it together to check to see if it was to my house....it wasn't.
i don't know if he would really ever come after me. i'm worried about him finding out where my youngest daughter is. i've talked to the girls about not giving him their addresses, but they have both told me...mom, if he can't get in touch with us, he WILL start messing with you again. we can handle it....ugh!!! we have been thru so much together and have protected one another as much as we could.
my youngest daughter is pregnant again. i'm very excited....except i'm scared how it's going to effect her emotionally. the doc says it's a little girl. my daughter has never told me her father (my ex) abused her...but i've always had a feeling that SOMETHING happened. i guess we take it one day at a time. i know how i flipped out when my stepdaughter came to live with us. i just about had to be locked up. i never saw a "normal father/daughter relationship". my husband was trying to be a "dad" and all i could see was my ex...
the day he was released, my dogs woke me up at like 4am, growling and snarling next to me in the bed. then, the same day i found a house key that "appeared" in the cup holder between the seats in my car. i have no idea where that came from. finally got it together to check to see if it was to my house....it wasn't.
i don't know if he would really ever come after me. i'm worried about him finding out where my youngest daughter is. i've talked to the girls about not giving him their addresses, but they have both told me...mom, if he can't get in touch with us, he WILL start messing with you again. we can handle it....ugh!!! we have been thru so much together and have protected one another as much as we could.
my youngest daughter is pregnant again. i'm very excited....except i'm scared how it's going to effect her emotionally. the doc says it's a little girl. my daughter has never told me her father (my ex) abused her...but i've always had a feeling that SOMETHING happened. i guess we take it one day at a time. i know how i flipped out when my stepdaughter came to live with us. i just about had to be locked up. i never saw a "normal father/daughter relationship". my husband was trying to be a "dad" and all i could see was my ex...
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