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I feel really bad that some people were upset or offended by an answer I made yesterday. If one of those people were YOU, please accept my apology. I didn't mean to upset you, and I did put in a big TRIGGER warning just in case.
I guess I just speak my mind, especially if I am trying to answer someone elses questions. The comment I made was actually something I intended to be degrading to myself, and no one else. It related back to my first SA and what some people might think I am today as a result.
Again, please accept my heartfelt apologies. I'm really upset now over this, as I didn't want to ever offend or make anyone else upset becuase of my words/thoughts/feelings.
I chose to remove my answer completely, which I think is fair and appropriate. I was asked nicely (and appropriately) to edit my answer, which I decided not to do. I don't believe in mincing words, or not expressing my own feelings properly. Id rather remove the post and avoid any misunderstandings than water it down.
:tear:/> I was going to post something about my weekend which was really awesome, but I don't feel like it now. Its not appropriate with the misunderstandings my reply caused yesterday. Maybe I'll share the good stuff later on...
:candle:/> Lashelle :candle:/>