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Posted by Qrious , 14 August 2014 · 140 views

Plus:
I managed to suggest to OH that we cuddle. I didn't freak out. It was nice.

Minus:
It took a lot of conscious effort to achieve that. It shouldn't.


Plus:
It turned into sex, and I didn't dissociate

Minus:
I couldn't ask him to use a condom AND stay present. Despite it being our only birth control, me being on meds and my having checked two days...





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