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Triggered by a 'Compliment'

Posted by anelisa , in Anxiety 23 December 2013 · 142 views

My boyfriend lives in a fraternity house.
At first, I was very hesitant to go there to see him.
So many guys.
But as soon as I met them, I felt a lot better.
It's an agricultural fraternity.
All of the boys there introduce themselves with a handshake.
Hold doors open for me.
They don't curse in front of girls.
They address me as 'ma'am'.
Very polite boys.
The other day, my boyfriend left me in his room and went to get food from the kitchen downstairs.
He came back 10 minutes later with food and he was chuckling.
I asked him what was so funny.
He told me that a guy down in the kitchen asked if I was his girlfriend.
He told him yes.
The guy said that I was a babe and if my boyfriend wasn't careful, he'd make his way upstairs and lock the door.
My boyfriend continued to chuckle to himself.
He didn't see anything wrong with the comments made.
I excused myself to go to the bathroom.
I threw up.
I didn't mention it to my boyfriend.

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