My dad changed a lot when his sister stayed with us. She cooked and cleaned everyday, so he was treated like a king. His room was always cleaned and all his meals were prepared when he got home. Since she left, he's told me I'm a bad daughter, don't contribute much to the family, not fit to be a wife, and should at least have the family meals ready at all times since "that's what I'll do as a future wife." He said a lot of cruel things to my mom and I. It was very annoying. My aunt would say a lot of out-of-line things and my dad never addressed it.
I understand he may secretly crave a stay-at-home wife, but that's not what he signed up for. He signed up to a life of him and my mom working full time, eating outside the home 75-80% of the time, and being with someone that hates cooking. Up until a month ago, eating at home everyday was not the norm for us. I love cooking, but being demanded to cook for everyone all-day, everyday b/c everyone else refuses to cook is ridiculous...plus the burden of "saving the family" has been brought on me b/c my parents spent a lot of money during the holidays buying things for people left and right and eating out all the time. Last time I checked, that wasn't my fault. I wasn't the one spending $300+ on multiple people or refusing to eat at home.
Maybe I'm overreacting or my bratty side is really coming through...IDK, but all these new rules, insults and demands are pushing me to move out.