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I've never been good enough for her. my sister.

Posted by lilyvanilla , 29 June 2013 · 135 views

So last night during our argument I told my sister 'I have never been good enough for you' and told her why. So that was.interesting.

The why being that I have to point out what I'm doing right otherwise she won't. And that makes me feel like those things aren't good enough which means I'm not good enough. which I told her.

something I never have.

you want me to do better. and recover. and such. then make me feel like I'm good enough.



My sister isn't very supportive either. I've had to remind myself that certain people in my life will not be the ones who necessarily push me. Some people get caught up in seeing you for who you were, your mistakes, etc. I try to just acknowledge that is their issue and know i can't rely on them and turn to the ones who i can rely on.
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lilyvanilla
Dec 23 2013 10:01 PM

thank you.

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