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I used to wallow in my pain, but now....

Posted by radarlove , 24 June 2013 · 183 views

I have a few ideals I try to follow:

1. What you focus on grows stronger.

- if I don't want to be reminded of bad things, bad people or bad experiences, then I should focus on the things I love, feel grateful for and appreciate. Even the little things, like that my buddy came over to watch The X-Files with me. That I had a good make-out...


Finally had sex last night

Posted by radarlove , 23 June 2013 · 170 views

It was with a guy i've been friends with for about two months. He's very non-aggressive and respectful of my space. I'm so used to sleazy, eager-for-sex guys. So this made it a lot easier to trust him and relax and feel safe and ready. The only problem is the sex wasn't very satisfying. :(/> I guess I can give it another try, bu...


First date asshole

Posted by radarlove , 22 June 2013 · 124 views

I recently became friends with this guy named "Devon". Turns out Devon is friends with a guy who treated me shittily several years ago on a first date and manipulated, and coerced his way into getting what he wanted. It's awkward having to hang out with him and see the other guy. I'm not sure if I should tell Devon what happened or not....

June 2013


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