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One more blog for the day. The apology

Posted by Orchid , 19 March 2014 · 79 views

How many of us burn from hatred because an apology was never given.
 
This doesn't have to be just the pedophile's apology, but maybe the apology from the spouse, the neighbor, the coworker, the boyfriend, or girlfriend.
 
Why is an apology so difficult.  Why is it so important?  For me it shows that the other person finally recognizes...


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Do we hurt others?

Posted by Orchid , 19 March 2014 · 81 views

One of the issues that abuse left me struggling with is how an abuser never stopped to consider how their actions would hurt the victim.  People will lie, cheat, steal, rape, or kill to fulfill their own needs. 
 
On a daily basis I watch people do very harmful things in small subtle ways in their relationships.  I watch men lie t...


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Dreams

Posted by Orchid , 13 March 2014 · 62 views

Dreams hitting hard recently.  A shift is occuring, a new layer to be uncovered.  These periods are tough, but take me closer to the core of my pain.  I ride the wave of pain, embracing it, knowing I will come out stronger and wiser.  Fatigue and privacy are my biggest challenges.  Courage and perseverance I have.  I am a war...





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