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insensitive comments getting to me

11 December 2012
Posted by one.day.  in Rambles
Arghhh!! So angry and disgusted at how people's minds work! At work today, a guy decided to tell me anyone who commits or tries su, deserves what they get alongside those who crash their cars. I'm so quiet but I hit the roof.

Broken ankle or not! How dare he say that? I know he doesn't know me but that is so insensitive and beyond wrong. My sister died through su and a group of my friends in a car crash. Everything was sick especially the word 'deserve'. They deserved nothing of the sort but to live a long and happy life.

Needless to say, my manager has banned me from working with him and yet again I'm at another disciplinary hearing with myuniversity lecturer.

 
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1 Comments On This Entry

The meeting went well, we are still banned from working together but that suits me fine. He's been suspended for other behaviour related issues too. I just hate it that people will hear him offend everyone and get away with it or laugh along. He's a sexist, racist, just plain nasty pasty.
one.day., 16 December 2012 - 03:39 PM
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