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my husband says he is going to leave me in 10 years that he is staying because of the children, that he doesn't know who I am anymore. He doesn't believe I got raped. He says he does but that before I realized the truth I was a different person for 2 days I was not my self I my self thought I had cheated on him. That was until my mother started asking questions and details and it slowly hit me. I know now without a doubt I was being r@ped. So since I was this cold person for 2 days he is now confused after 8.5 years of marriage of me being me and now trying to once again be myself he now is unsure. I told him before he left he will sit and listen to me tell him everything his brother did to me. I have been honest I'm not trying to hide anything some things he doesn't want to hear. I love my husband but I just don't know what to do.I feel I have lost him.
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I am sorry this has happened to you; all of it. I wish I had an answer for you. Your husband does sound confused and since it involves his brother and you, his wife and the mother of his children it is understandable. However, I would be so hurt if my husband did not believe me. I hope he comes around and decides to be more supportive of you.

Blessings
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