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So today I found out I might qualify for unemployment! Of course my mom came home from vacation this morning and was only said two sentences before letting me know that I needed to find out because "what else are you gonna do, sleep all morning" um like hello that would be nice. She seriously went through this entire house,which I had spotless by the way because she wasnt here all week to mess it up, and just moved things around. She plugged in the vacum and left it in the middle of the floor when i just vvacumed last night, she has her bag in the middle of the floor, the coffee pot isnt cleaned out she has her iron and board out in the middle of the table and thats just a couple of things that I named. I seriously cannot stand to be around a person who only speaks to me when they are telling me something that I am doing wrong.
But on a good note, things are going good with the boyfraaan. :)/> I got us ice cream and a movie last night and I fell asleep with my head on his chest. I havent been that comfortable with him in a loooong time. Of course he tried to push the limits a little bit but after I said it once or twice he actually stopped. He really listened to me when I told him that I didnt want to do that. He got kind of mad but he pretty much got over it! He really is trying to change! He didnt say anything mean to me all night except for when I turned him down, but I even got him the wrong kind of ice cream and he didnt even get mad, he actually just ate it any ways!! We have been fighting so much less lately. We got into it a couple times last week but besides a pretty little bruise on my arm It never really got to intense. Rome wasnt built in a day and even though hes made some mistakes, I really think things are gonna get better! Hes starting to yell at me a little more in public, which is pretty embarrassing, but we just need to take one thing at a time and I think things will be better then theyve ever been!
But on a good note, things are going good with the boyfraaan. :)/> I got us ice cream and a movie last night and I fell asleep with my head on his chest. I havent been that comfortable with him in a loooong time. Of course he tried to push the limits a little bit but after I said it once or twice he actually stopped. He really listened to me when I told him that I didnt want to do that. He got kind of mad but he pretty much got over it! He really is trying to change! He didnt say anything mean to me all night except for when I turned him down, but I even got him the wrong kind of ice cream and he didnt even get mad, he actually just ate it any ways!! We have been fighting so much less lately. We got into it a couple times last week but besides a pretty little bruise on my arm It never really got to intense. Rome wasnt built in a day and even though hes made some mistakes, I really think things are gonna get better! Hes starting to yell at me a little more in public, which is pretty embarrassing, but we just need to take one thing at a time and I think things will be better then theyve ever been!
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