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scenarios (mostly internal messages i send my self)
- i wont be ever allowed to see my cousins again
- id be better off not around
- im never going to amount to anything
- ive failed the people i should be caring most about
- im going to loose my job before i find another one
Safety nets
- if they do stop me from seeing my cousins then thats thier guilt and shame not mine, they may even be trying to be protective worried about what i will say t them about thier father, like a member at pandys said to me i could try sending i very brief note to them in the post and a small token of love. when they get older i can try and built a relationship with them. i could always contact social services for contact advice.
- another member at pandys has shown me that if your not around the pain you have is transferred to my loved ones, so i wouldnt want to leave them with that legacy. even if i moved away they would be worried.
- ok so i may not be going where i want to be right now, but ive got to look after myself and get healthy before i can strive and reach what i know i can.
- once i am stronger and if i feel the same then i will build bridges with poeple i no longer talk too, i will always care for these people. and the weight of the world doesnt lie on my shoulders. i am not responsible for them.
- if i loose my job then il find another one. but i need to be proactive... as long as i am trying my best what more can i ask of myself
right now time for a coffee :)/>
- i wont be ever allowed to see my cousins again
- id be better off not around
- im never going to amount to anything
- ive failed the people i should be caring most about
- im going to loose my job before i find another one
Safety nets
- if they do stop me from seeing my cousins then thats thier guilt and shame not mine, they may even be trying to be protective worried about what i will say t them about thier father, like a member at pandys said to me i could try sending i very brief note to them in the post and a small token of love. when they get older i can try and built a relationship with them. i could always contact social services for contact advice.
- another member at pandys has shown me that if your not around the pain you have is transferred to my loved ones, so i wouldnt want to leave them with that legacy. even if i moved away they would be worried.
- ok so i may not be going where i want to be right now, but ive got to look after myself and get healthy before i can strive and reach what i know i can.
- once i am stronger and if i feel the same then i will build bridges with poeple i no longer talk too, i will always care for these people. and the weight of the world doesnt lie on my shoulders. i am not responsible for them.
- if i loose my job then il find another one. but i need to be proactive... as long as i am trying my best what more can i ask of myself
right now time for a coffee :)/>
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