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another thing that I've had to deal with in the past several months is that i am still Facebook friends with the baby sitter and she just recently made a post about how proud she was of "the offender" for changing and being such a good father and role model for their boys and a bunch of other crap. I was like really?? proud that he touched my daughter? proud that he stole her innocence? then i was like how can you be a good father in PRISON which then lead to some role model you're showing your boys!!! another thing that i found out from her (cuz she is apparently still talking to him) is that he told her that he was drunk when he did it and she apparently seems to think that its ok or something! I don't care if he was drunk or not!!! first of all besides the fact that he did it to my daughter being drunk is not an excuse because being drunk doesn't make you do something that weren't already thinking about or wanting to do it just gives you the courage to do it!