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Dating after 20 year abusive marriage/TW for certain words

Posted by DTC40 , 29 March 2013 · 78 views

I am three years out of an abusive marriage. I have finally completely broken free and moved several states away. My ex and I have four children together. One adult son and three teenage daughters. I am having mixed feelings about dating. I know the statisticss that men who are not the biological father are more likely to sexually abuse a step child...


settling in

Posted by DTC40 , 24 March 2013 · 63 views

Things are beginning to feel normal, like a routine. I got a referal to a doctor and possible way to get my meds at a discounted price. All things that had me worried. It has been cloudy and kinda cold or to me anyway, lol. I am always cold. I was hopingSome for a sunny day today so I could take the kids to the beach my youngest daughter is still you...


Frustrated with anxiety

Posted by DTC40 , 23 March 2013 · 72 views

It seems to stupid to me. I have been talking about and planning for this move to Florida for three years. Finally at last I am here, I should be excited and happy and over the moon. I am content, however I keep having small panic attacks. I wish I could pinpoint what it causing them. It is just being in a new place. I feel stupid for having anxiet...


Ex husband refuses to talk to his children

Posted by DTC40 , 21 March 2013 · 73 views

We all got to St. Pete save and sound. My ex is refusing to take any calls from the kids. He knows the only way he can hurt me is to hurt the kids. What the idiot does not realize or maybe does not care is that he is hurting his three daughters. Our oldest daughter is 16 and she calls every night and he will not answer. Our 20 yr old son called and l...


Getting out of here

Posted by DTC40 , 15 March 2013 · 72 views

The only reason I am waiting to move was so my son could work out his two week notice. He has already done that but they scheduled him another two days past his two week notice. I told him that when he went to work tonight to tell them he needed to go ahead and leave. When he gets home in the morning at 7 am, while he gets some sleep myself and the gir...



Posted by DTC40 , 14 March 2013 · 60 views

I gave in and went to my ex husbands house where he lives with his mother for the kids to have dinner with them. My ex's sister was in the states from Israel and the kids had not seen her in two years and with us moving to Florida on Monday I knew it could be another couple years before they might get to see her. My ex has been acting so crazy that...

March 2013


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