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Letters to my children Part 3

21 January 2013

Posted by ButtercupPr

[font="tahoma,"]This has been the week where I was to write letters to my children then bring them to my therapist. We planned to look them over and decide what I should tell them. Last weekend I wanted them to know everything. Every little detail; the sexual abuse, the emotional abuse, and the barrage of law suits. ...

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Letters to my children Part 2

18 January 2013

Posted by ButtercupPr

It's been a few days since I got the papers and a few days since I had the chat with my daughter. The chat where she told me she didn't want to do what wasn't "fair for dad". I had a hard time with that statement because I don't think "fair for mom" has entered her or her brother's minds. But I know that...

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Letters to my children... Part 1

14 January 2013

Posted by ButtercupPr

My ex-husband has served me with legal papers for the umpteenth time. He doesn't want to pay child support . He has NEVER wanted to pay child support. I realize that this is not an uncommon problem. To be honest... If he would go away... Leave me alone... Leave our children alone... I would be okay. But that's not the case. He...

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The End is Near

13 January 2013

Posted by ButtercupPr

I really do give myself credit... I am an AMAZING person.. a fighter, strong, compassionate, loving, moral. I know these things about myself. But a person can only do so much, take so much before they reach a limit. I am at my limit.
I was married for 10 years to an abuser. I was naive and knew little about the ways of the world. We fell...

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Becoming enlightened.....

06 January 2013

Posted by ButtercupPr

I am in CONSTANT struggle... Who is my ally; who is not my ally? Occasionally I step outside of my comfort zone and reveal a teeny part of myself to test the water. That happened this week.... A meme/photo came up on Facebook. "My rapist doesn't know he's a rapist" read the sign. A beautiful young woman in her 20s held the...

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