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where my stalker showed up under a false name.
She had attempted something similiar over 4 years ago
at the same agency.
At that time, the program director called me in.
I had given her a prior warning 2 years before.
She gave me a support letter almost immediately.
(This letter is still in my file and the new leader saw it last year).
Another friend of my rapist who had been harassing me in the community
and at another agency had been in groups with me at this agency.
She tried to create an incident in a group at this agency
and again the program director was supportive of me.
Well, this program director left last year.
I felt that she was one of the few professionals that RESPECTED me.
So now, with her gone, my rapist's friends tried again.
and this time they have succeeded.
I no longer feel safe at this agency
I no longer trust the group leader
Some people have suggested that I leave the agency
and find a group elsewhere.
Well, this gang of my rapist's friends
have been very thorough
with their hate campaign.
The irony right now
is that one of the agencies that initially supported them
now claims to welcome me
(I do not feel safe there because of their initial role
in the hate campaign and the lengths it took to have
them change their position)
If I leave this agency, I feel as if I will have few options left
and will be more isolated than I already am at present.
I spoke with a friend this week.
She has been there before, during and after the relationship.
She works in the field
and was one of the first to recognize the campaign
for what it is
I think this is one of my longer posts
and after 7 years of this
I am exhausted of yet again having my supports disrupted
and feeling betrayed by yet another professional
The campaign does keep sidetracking the real issue
and protects my rapist
to be continued..
Source: Do you ever expect to "run into" R/SA-ist
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Please note that some of the content here may be triggering.
What I write here is just me being honest with myself. Mostly just venting about things, realisations, and my path through healing.
There will be talk of CSA, SA, R, SI and ED here.