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Ok I am back. Who knows for how long. I am get ting virtual memory errors now on laptop


I have 5 female perps

plus the stalkers

Mom (p) was the initial perp.


Initially memories of her were blurred in with the male perps.

I have checked my therapy books,


I had highlighted references to abuse by moms

and I was buying true crime books where the crimes were by female perps

Mom had an heart attack and a year later there were flashbacks of her

actually I had one about her right after being told about her heart attack

it just took a year for me to label it as her.

My file from the agency that worked with me as a teenager

contained notes about mom, real selective


because she was on their board of directors


In 2005, mom(p) gave me some notes

and from what she wrote,


my sister was another victim


my nephew may also be one of her victims

maybe my brothers as well





perp 2 was an aquaintance at university

there was only

(only !)

one assault by her

but her grooming both before and after

was scary I still have some of her letters

perp 3

same sex domestic violence

that is a mouthful


my assorted ts's denial

blended into so well

with her grooming


and my disbelief



I was trying to disclose

while the abuse was happenning


and afterwards


and it was a friend from college

who had the courage

to listen to the details


and name it as rape


perp 4

one of her friends


dyke marches can be dangerous


perp 5

a classmate from my home room

at college


she assaulted me in my hoomroom

right in front of my classmates



to be continued see blog

Source: sexual abuse by female perpetrators
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