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age 13 Grandfather died after I wrote about being multiple, after my drawings and poetry about being raped


referred to first counsellor for about a year

did some artwork about grandfather

age 20 death of a perp uncle already in counselling, I think that his death was not even mentioned

age 21 death of a perp by suicide - older brother already in counselling

wrote some poetry about his abuse, counsellor losted poetry

when i tried to obtain file later

his suicide not even mentioned in the counselling summary

death of perp uncle already in counselling, can not find any documentaion by these counsellors

additional flooding over and above flooding already occurring

death of perp grandfather already in counselling, can not find amy documentaion by these counsellers

death of perp father already in counselling, can not find any documentation by these counsellors

next counsellor mentions my being in grief counselling

counsellor after her mention that dad is dead, but not his abuse

death of perp May 2006 4 months before joining Pandys


My experience has been that counsellors do not recognize that at the death of a perp,


you need both grief counselling and trauma counselling


that you are flooding again with abuse memories

that you find out how ineffective your previous counselling has been
 

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