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Donna Mae DePola - Guest Speaker Chat ...May 25th 2013 ... for more information please read this!






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unresolved grief major trigger warnings






my mom's mom age 3 I named her as a victim of violence in 2001

aunt on dad's side age 4 breast cancer triggerered 1991

my dad's mom age 7 she should be named as a victim of violence

my godmother age 11 - 12 cancer

my dad's dad age 13 ??? PERP

my older brother age 21 self immolation PERP/VICTIM

my mom's brother 1992 perp

my bf's father 1992 cancer bf has another affair

my mom's dad 1993 perp

university friend 1997 i miss her I wish she was here now I could use her help right now

college classmate 1998 graduation weekend

my uncle 1999 icancer I was told in 2001

a colleague 2000 cancer i spent her last summer working in her garden

friend in building 2001 suicide i got a note from her just weeks before

my sister 2001 I named her a victim of violence for 2001 :bawling:

my dad 2002 just days after i spoke to the police in my hometown
my lawyer told me on the phone about him about a month after

my mother left me a voice message 7 months aftre his death

friend from outreach program 2004 i got told on the street

friend in building 2005 i was told in the hallway

my aunt 2005 2 days before a hearing

friend in my building 2005 i honour her every time i can leave my apartment

she spent the first 12 hours with me
following my sister's death


my aunt 2005 cancer less than a month before a hearing


worker cancer 2005 months after her death


perp need more be said 2006


friend and worker cancer 2006 to her gypsy soul same time as dealing with bro's cancer


worker 2007 this one is still too recent update I received an article in the mail that honoured her. I really liked the article ...... i received more articles this week honouring her
 

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