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I was able to pick up some textbooks.

I was able to have a quiet time on campus.


I was nervous this morning about being on campus.

I am upgrading my classes with encouragement from my supports
Communicating in the Human Services Field in Canada


Fourth Edition

2009

Lucy Valentino



Nelson Education

10 - isbn: 0 -17 -650027-8


13 - isbn: 978-0-17-650027-6
Health Quality Council

" the quality of our health system is the responsibity of every one ".


there is a need for

" help to understand publicly funded health system better "

and a need

for information so you need to " keep up pressure for improvement "


to be continued

meeting at the college

Personal Finances

4th Canadian Edition


Kapoor Dlabay HughesAhmad

McGraw-Hill Ryerson

2009

isbn

13: 978-0-07-098402-8/

isbn

10:0-07-098402-6
by kevin bisback and leslie kopf-johnson


2007

Pearson Education Canada Inc



includes bibliographical references and index








ISBN 0 - 13 - 127591 -7
She has written a number of books

I am reading 2 of her more "recent" works



to be continued
isbn 0-345-47922-X


this book was popular at my university


1974 1976 2004 2006


30 years old


predictable crises of adult life
I am finding the books more insightful than my counselling or "supports""

i find it strange to revisit books that claimed that i would recover

or reclaim my childhood

or reparent myself

are more validating than

the counsellor of the day

now if i can take my notes from all of these books

resort them

maybe i will have a better...
As a child, I was gang raped by relatives at birthday parties

In high school, I was at a party where a classmate was gang raped.

In university, my perps acted in pairs, covering for each other.

My abusive boyfriend was one of these types of perps.

My rapist is different from him.

She is the only perp in my adulthood

to rape me vaginally with...

A quick update

mom is probably unwell

nephew I need to go to his life plan


brother birthday fast approaching



stalker, may have run into her during a snow storm



rapist, I have seen several times



I finished reading LUCKY ........ wow May 1981, her story is amazing !!!!!!



I also read I never called it Rape ... a lot of this...

My birthday tradition

After university, I started a tradition

I would take myself out for dinner

and buy myself gifts

Some years, I would invite a friend

Some years, friends would have a party for me

Some years, it was just me.

After the memory breakthroughs, I added buying cards

and asking people to sign them

1 year I made a birthday collage and gave out...
Well, there is LUSH

and then there is the Body Shop

I will be indulging in a scent sensation

Neroli Jasmin - a new scent for me !!!

Cassis Rose - for relaxing

Lavender massage oil for relaxing

Aloe calming, soothing and for sensitive skin

Peppermint cooling leg gel

Cocoa Butter

Their Holiday Selection:


PLUM their new scent...
" Enjoy the soothing sounds of solitude "

" Keep on trucking "

" Have a great birthday "

" Hope you have a very happy birthday "

" Have a wonderful day "

" all the best on your birthday "

" have a wonderful birthday celebration "

" wishing you all the best on your...

I am thankful for.....

that I found Mom alive in a hospital

that my nephew will be warm this winter

that I found some Christmas presents for my brother

and my nephew now knows a little more about his uncle


that my chiro interns are so supportive


that there are trees outside my bedroom window


that I have lots of interests

that my T actively listens (it is a...
If every high school and college and university wrote to government officials


about assisting students who have been sexually assaulted


Would that make a difference ???

Would that bring about change ?

Would there be more supports ?

Would there be increased reporting ?

Canadian Women's Wit & Wisdom

Shredded garlic

mixed with honey

was a remedy for

colds, coughs, asthma and bronchitis

-- not to mention croupy hens !!!


Jeanne Scargall,

Canadian Homestead Cookbook

August 20 2007

Yesterday was sunny and today is so cold and overcast. I stayed in bed alot yesterday, did a little cleaning.

Today, I am trying to do laundry, feels like the first time in at least 4 months, since my worker's death.


I am feeling really stressed, I really need a vacation ! I went for a walk down to the stores... it always feel

like a...

Wishing Stones

Aug 5 2007


create, magic, dream, wish, strength by Running Press
To My Daughter with love Parragon Books


Mothers and daughters by Sandra Deeble


To a very special daughter by Helen Exley


The Love Between Fathers and Daughters by Helen Exley

Baby Girl A Giftbook by Helen Exley











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About my blog

This is basically my space to spill out everything I'm thinking and feeling.

Please note that some of the content here may be triggering.

What I write here is just me being honest with myself. Mostly just venting about things, realisations, and my path through healing.

There will be talk of CSA, SA, R, SI and ED here.

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