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26 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in career and COLLEGE, career and UNIVERSITY, career MY CAREER, CLINICAL SERVICES health serv..., CLINICAL SERVICES housing, CLINICAL SERVICES support, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY STORY

Being Lesbian or Gay

IS NOT A CRIME

BASHING IS !

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25 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in MY STORY, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY RAPIST, career and UNIVERSITY, career and COLLEGE, ACTIVIST, PROFILE

Without consent,

any sexual contact

including

touching, kissing and holding

is legally considered

sexual assault

ASK FIRST

NO MEANS NO

Beforre you

intitiate physical

or sexual contact

find out

what your partner wants

and RESPECT THEIR WISHES

DATE RAPE NOT UNDERSTANDING NO

25 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in MY STORY, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY RAPIST, career and UNIVERSITY, career and COLLEGE, ACTIVIST, PROFILE

NO means NO

Not now means no

I have a boyfriend/girlfriend means NO

Maybe later means NO

No thanks means NO

You're not my type means NO

$#@!!!! means NO

I'd rather be alone

right now means no

Don't touch me means NO

I really like you but.... means NO

Let's just go to sleep means NO

I'm not...

LAPTOP PROBLEMS AGAIN

14 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in career and COLLEGE, career and UNIVERSITY, career MY CAREER, support

I am having problems agai

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My Stalker trigger Warnings

22 January 2007

Posted by danusia007 in career and COLLEGE, CLINICAL SERVICES housing, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, career and UNIVERSITY

My stalker first came into my life
at an agency that claimed
that they were helpng abused women
get on with their life
This agency later lost their funding
there was the usual donation room
for clothes
some computers
some food services where I volunteered
so did my stalker
a group for csa
where we were given
an overwhelming amount of reading...

Tags: My stalker and assailant remains free

MY RAPIST about the rapes Trigger Warnings

26 November 2006

Posted by danusia007 in MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY RAPIST, My Family SISTER, CLINICAL SERVICES housing, career and UNIVERSITY, career and COLLEGE

I originally wrote this on my first Pandy birthday Oct 21 2006

My rapist was a survivor of CSA

My rapist wrote about rape in high school

I never did see that essay

I did get told that she was questioned
by her principal

My rapist was in my support group
It was a mixture of clients and counsellors

before the rapes

My rapist had visited my...

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Sexual Assaults at university

26 November 2006

Posted by danusia007 in career and COLLEGE, career and UNIVERSITY

One of the highest risk situations for sexual assault
(after the family) occurrs
when a woman is studying at college or university.

Even today I question how well trained
the counsellors(sp) are to assist women
when they are assaulted on the academic campus.

to be continued

Tags: assaults at university

Assault in residence Possible Triggers

02 November 2006

Posted by danusia007 in career and UNIVERSITY

I was a personal attendent for a friend. The woman across the hall from her was part of our social circle.
I got cards and letters from this woman. I was invited by her to come to her room to watch TV. There was either a desk chair or her bed to sit on. The woman was on the bed. I sat on the end of the bed watching TV......the woman's...

Tags: assaults at university