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Happy New Year

13 January 2011
Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties, odds and ends, REFLECTIONS
and ready for more misadventures ?

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DIM SUM FOR THE HOLIDAYS !

29 December 2010
Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE my books, MY HEALING CIRCLE My Movies, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties
One of my fave activities is to join a group of friends at a local chinese restarant

and enjoy tea, food and conversation for the afternoon

there is a card and gift exchange as well


an annual enjoyable event

Tags: holidays

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Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE My Movies, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties
see the latest Nardia Movie !!!!

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HAPPY HOLIDAYS ONE AND ALL

24 December 2010
Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties, MY STORY, PROFILE
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Tags: holidays

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Holiday shopping

23 December 2010
Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE my books, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties
sugar plums for the first time ever

christmas memory book

a christmas tradition book

a believe in christmas book

a santa claus snow globe (block ?)


sketching, drawing and painting supplies

a fun kit

wooden carvings to paint

a travel journel

plus 2 more journels

a couple other books


it is a family tradition to give books at...
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Tags: virtual party

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Pocket Riders Holiday Party

23 December 2010
Posted by danusia007   in MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY RAPIST, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, MY HEALING CIRCLE, My Family NEPHEW, MY STORY
lots of chocolate and fave secret recipes

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Tags: virtual party for holidays

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Posted by danusia007   in CLINICAL SERVICES housing, CLINICAL SERVICES support, MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties, REFLECTIONS, support
last night, after the solstice lunch,

there was a holiday party in my building

red and white snowflake balloons !!!!!!

lots of tenants,

a great alcohol free punch: orange juice, pineapple juice and ginger ale

- there is a secret as when to add the ginger ale


lots of fruit, veggies and cheese

and fab treats...
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Posted by danusia007   in REFLECTIONS, odds and ends, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend
I just finished celebrating solstice

at one of my fave restaurents

with a friend.


good food, good music, good company


an enjoyable salad, pasta entree and dessert


a christmas card from the owner

a pleasant afternoon

Tags: solstice

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Posted by danusia007   in My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, MY HEALING CIRCLE, My Family SISTER, My Family NEPHEW, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family I salute my brother
for times with friends


and yet a heavy heart

Tags: first christmas without brother

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seasons greetings arriving

14 December 2010
Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend
mainly local friends


their cards are so appreciated

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Posted by danusia007   in career and UNIVERSITY, My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, My Family SISTER, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY STORY, please forgive me, PROFILE, REFLECTIONS, support
I believe that the assault two years ago was premeditated. I believe that they were waiting for me to be alone.

There is now an alarm post for security near where I was assaulted so no one will be isolated like i was.

I still have flashbacks about the assault


I am too sick these days to do much.


My nephew had to have surgery today so I am...
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Tags: I will never be the same

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late birthday party

26 November 2010
Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties, REFLECTIONS, support
i have been so sick that i only had my birthday party today

at my favourite italian restaurent

one friend painted a bday card with a jazz band

potato leek soup

and some solid food yay !


i am still in semi isolation

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Posted by danusia007   in support, REFLECTIONS, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend
:rolleyes:

:blush: :blush:

:lol:


:yay: :yay:

:o: ;)


:D :)


wow !!!!!!!

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Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, support
it had a card, some native medicene,

a ribbon and a collage


it definitely was a pick up !!!!!!!!!!!!!






:yay: :o:




:blush: :blush: :yay:






:rolleyes: :lol:






:D :) ;) :)
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Tags: care package

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Posted by danusia007   in support, REFLECTIONS, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, career and UNIVERSITY, The Power of Your Dreams
a friend at university inspired a poem by this title

i spoke with her yesterday

i broke up with several boyfriends after writing this

i also wrote a lot of poetry that year

i told her i am writing again


to be continued

Tags: j

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Posted by danusia007   in support, REFLECTIONS, please forgive me, MY STORY, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My Family SISTER, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family NEPHEW, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family I salute my brother, CLINICAL SERVICES support, CLINICAL SERVICES housing, CLINICAL SERVICES health serv..., career and COLLEGE
extreme trigger warnings

this has been edited


i was hoping to post this earlier

circumstances prevented me from doing so

Dec 6th is for naming and remembering

I have chosen Dec 6th

to be my memorial day

for my sister.


I have also chosen

this location

to be her gravesite


My sister was born in my parents house


I have been told

that...
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Tags: extreme trigger warnings

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend
Hell is for children

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, cancer and ptsd, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend
Collector's edition


LAUGHING OUT LOUD



a comedy club 2008


350 minutes of comedians

Tags: i salute my brother

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Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend
and so is a new support


and both are appreciated beyond words

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i am thinking of my friend

02 February 2010
Posted by danusia007   in MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend
we have been in touch a lot recently


and trying to support each other

Tags: support from friends

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About my blog

This is basically my space to spill out everything I'm thinking and feeling.

Please note that some of the content here may be triggering.

What I write here is just me being honest with myself. Mostly just venting about things, realisations, and my path through healing.

There will be talk of CSA, SA, R, SI and ED here.

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